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| Why are we making dumb people famous like Kylie Jenner and 6 x 9? A man in UK just cured someone of HIV and nobody reported on it. I
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| Am i an asshole? I refuse to punish my son for this.,"On mobile so im going to condense this. |
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| For 3 years an older kid had been bullying my son in our. Subdivision. My son has come home crying before over this. |
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| This morning he had enough. |
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| The kid hit my son in the mouth.(made him bleed) So my son decided enough was enough grabbed his bike lock and swung it at the other kid like a mace. |
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| Apparently he hit the kid at least 10 times full force. |
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| He comes running home and says ""dad youre gonna yell at me and im sorry"" and explains what happened. |
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| I for one was proud. |
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| Well the kid and his mom show up at my door and shes showing me the biggest welts i have ever seen on her sons stomach and arms. |
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| I laughed. Showed the mom my sons bloody lip and said he got what he deseved. Told her to get off my property and slammed the door in her face. |
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| Im taking my son for icecream in 20 minutes. |
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| Am i the asshole. |
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| UPDATE: icecream aquired. |
| We had a lengthy discussion about weapons and thier usage in combat as well as the legal implications. |
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| Overall i explained that weapons are unacceptable for use in a physical altercation unless your opponent is armed as well. |
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| Further update: just would like to say thank you all for your opinions. Being a parent is a challenge and this situation required me to look outside of my realm. Thank you.",649,Nah you
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| Can I please have karma so I can post content to this site?,,686,Thank you person who upvoted this. I appreciate it.,146,ask
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| why does reddit hate it when you use emoji ?,"I was just informed after I’ve been using Reddit for about eight months now after one of my comments got literally 200 down votes and someone commented telling me i bet your confused as to why this was downvoted a lot it’s because of the emoji usage… why? I did some googling and some answers say it’s to maintain the retro Ness of the app but others say it’s because reddit uses a lot of typed ones ….either way what the hell? |
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| edit: thank you for all the responses and awards it’s really appreciated. I learned a lot from asking such a simple question so thank you to all those responded. |
| 𝗔𝗻𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝗹𝘀𝗲 𝘄𝗵𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝗮𝗰𝗿𝗼𝘀𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗮𝘃𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗱𝗼 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝗱. 𝗜 𝗴𝗼𝘁 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗲𝘀 ❤️ .Some answering the question I ask and others answering questions I didn’t know needed to be asked lol much love and take care of yourself fellow reddit-ers",854,Depends what subreddits you go in,73,ask
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| How old were you when you lost your virginity?,,635,"I haven't lost it because true gamers never lose. |
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| I'm not a gamer. Lol.",212,ask
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| Is this sexual assault or is it normal?,"I'm sorry if this is a wrong subreddit to ask this question but I don't know where else to ask since this is my first time using this app. Redirect me please if there is another subreddit that could maybe help me more. As I said I've never used Reddit or apps like these but I feel the need to get this off my chest. |
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| Long story short I was left alone with a guy I met for the first time that night on a beach. It was very late(around maybe 3 am) and I was a little drunk since it was after a party. My male friend I've known for a long time and another guy I just met there went for a swim. And now me and this dude were completely alone. The next thing I knew he was on top of me, touching my waist and my breasts. I told him no but he didn't stop. He then tried to kiss me but I pulled away and he tried again. I asked him again if he could please stop and he didn't. He just asked if I was drunk and continued touching me and kissing me on the neck. He's a lot stronger than me as I'm a very small girl and it was hard to push him away. I then got up and told him I was going to the toilet. After I got back my friend was there and we went home. |
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| Is this normal or is it considered sexual assault? My friend told me what was I expecting to happen being left alone with a man and that It was expected to happen. I feel ashamed to tell anyone as I expect the same response. |
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| Edit: I asked because I got told it was normal. I am seeking validation for my feelings. The first thing that came to my mind after it happened was definately that this was sexual assault, but because of my surroundings I started doubting it. I also spent time with him because I trusted my male friend I was with. Them leaving caught me off guard. I'm also 18 yo and he was like 23. Deep down I know this was assault and I just need confirmation for some reason.",2105,That should not be expected. That’s sexual assault. Sounds like you need a new friend,410,ask
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| Is it weird if a 18yr old and a 17 yr old go out?,"And this goes for I guess younger ages like 16-15 or 15-14 . |
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| Edit: OMG Thanks to everyone that answered and are still answering it’s honestly amazing that this many people answered, like I was literally just chilling and I come back like 2 hours later and theirs 111 ( I think ) notifications and idk it was so cool tbh. And for those that are wondering yes I do live in the US and to be specific New York. I’m not 18 or 17 I’m 15 so don’t worry I ain’t doin this anytime soon, I was just wondering cuz this girl I like is 14 so I kinda just wanted to make sure you know and I don’t really feel like dating right now but I just wanted to make sure. But anywho thank you guys so so so so so so so much like seriously thank you :) |
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| Edit2: omg guys wtf the amount of answers tripled omg like whaa-. Thank you guys like seriously. And on a more serious note please don’t be a dick to each other, if your gonna I guess “ argue “ plz keep it Mature and respectful. But anywhoo thank you guys like OMG. |
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| Edit3: to all the people saying that I’m not ready to date because I asked this question or because I said “going out” plz just read the edits like I put more information there so you could use it to help give a better answer. Oh and I’m 15 btw and my crush is 14 so I’m definitely not gonna do any of that “real love” stuff and like I said I wasn’t planning on going out in the first place, I just wanted to know if it was ok or not |
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| Edit4: to the people that keep saying this is so damn dumb and that you don’t know why anyone would ask that plz like plz just stfu like if it’s so dumb like don’t respond to it and just go onto another question, I don’t wanna keep dealing with your dumbass",677,Yes. Only date people born on the same day as you.,158,ask
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| Do women poop?,,573,"No we don't. The anus is just for male satisfaction. Please men, understand that if we say ""yes"", then we're lying. Only men poop.",326,ask
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| "People who don’t pick up after themselves after exiting a movie theater, why?",Why do you feel the need to leave all your trash behind and not take a second to pick up after yourself and take it to the trash can?,516,I will absolutely pick up trash of mine. If I accidentally spilled popcorn I’m not doing that. The floors are too gross.,132,ask
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| What is a “they/them equivalent to “ma’am” or “sir”,"At work the other day, this person was climbing on one of our work ladders to reach something they couldn’t reach. I said politely “ma’am can you please get off the ladder, only staff are allowed to use them”. They replied with “I am not a woman, I am a they, and don’t tell me what to do” |
| They lodged a formal complaint against me as well.",524,"*tips fedora |
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| "There was post ""Ask me about Mexico"", so ask me about Russia, because why not.",,507,Are people really as hot tempered as stereotypes make them out to be?,78,ask
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| Why is it ok for men with man boobs to walk around shirtless but women still can’t walk around topless?,I’ve seen some men with bigger man boobs than women with breast (no offense to females with smaller breast) but for some reason men can walk around shirtless and everything is cool but if a woman were to do that she’d get in trouble for indecent exposure. Some one please explain how this is allowed. Do you think this is fair?,695,"Man boobs are harmless, but people might be afraid of actual boobs. |
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| People think, if boobs can shoot milk, what else can they shoot? LASER rays?",198,ask
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| "Based on your job now, what would your job be in medieval times?",,585,"Demon exorcist |
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| [Serious] Why do men take so long to poop?,"My boyfriend takes at the least 20 to 30 minutes to poop. Every time. It's feels he takes quicker showers than he goes #2. Even today we were going to run to the store and grab some drinks before I had to work, and we couldn't because he had to poop and wouldn't have time anymore. |
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| My dad does the same thing. But he is disabled so I assumed it took longer due to that. |
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| When I go, it takes at the most 8 minutes unless my stomach hurts. Do guys just like the alone time/like to chill on the toilet? I'm not shaming or being rude, it's no big issue to take your time. I'm just curious on if this is just a guy thing?",1206,"We're on our phones, sorry",492,ask
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| Is it a shame if a 25 - 30 year old man plays videogames,"Is it a shame if a 25 - 30 year old man play games like : worlx of tanks, roblox(sometimes, it was my favourite teenage game, Gta V , mimecraft etc....) |
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| Please be honest beacuse i am really insecure about this, everyone keeps telling me to stop gaming and i want to keep gaming all my life but people around me make me feel really insecure about it.",533,"I’m 50 and have been gaming since, well, the internet was born 🤣. My partner plays too, incl his brother and we might not play as fanatic and time consuming as we used to 20 years ago, but still. He is still on every day, I when I feel I have the time.",100,ask
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| "Those of you who are still not vaccinated yet, why?",I’m not here to start an argument or anything just curious to why if you aren’t or haven’t gotten the vaccine yet.,575,While I am vaccinated if it was not for my job I may not have been. I get it. Ppl want to wait to see if it has any long term effects. For what it is worth this vaccine did roll out quicker than most.,122,ask
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| Ask me a question however deep and i’ll answer honestly,,1008,How do I invest in short-term investments?,137,ask
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| Does it freak anyone else out seeing people younger than you being successful?,"It seems just over the past 12 months or so I've started noticing a lot more people who are successful but younger than me. And it freaks me out! |
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| I feel like damn...that person is only 20 years old and they're in the Olympics, or they've started a business, or they're doing this & that. It makes me wonder what am I doing with my life...it's not like I've not done anything. I have a decent(ish) job. I've been travelling which was a dream of mine for a while & something I am lucky to have experienced. |
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| But it just feels like in a blink of an eye I'm getting past my peak already & I haven't really made anything of it.",584,Nah. I just figure they
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| "Why’s it acceptable for black actors to play historical figures who were white, but if a white person played a black person it would be racist ?",,1207,Tropic Thunder could never be made today. 🤣,187,ask
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| Why is the COVID vaccine free because it “saves lives” but other health necessities like insulin and inhalers cost so much ?,"What’s the logic behind this? People have been dying at higher rates from other conditions for years that aren’t “covid” and no one cares. Now all of a sudden, they want to save lives.",858,"Whatever gets people to work the most and the quickest. If most people get a vaccine, no more lockdowns and we can all return to work. Covid has been a HUGE blow to the current economy so the faster the ""economy can recover"", the ""better"". They can't have so many people dying/hospitalized at once. Diabetes and asthma aren't contagious and those people can still work (to a point) and if they can't work because of their conditions the government seems to want them to suffer and die but it's not that much of an economic threat, apparently.",197,ask
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| What is an unpopular opinion you have about parenting that you know might make a lot of parents mad?,,505,Do not have a kid if you can
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| Do you believe that there are more than two genders?,Or none (non-binary)?,617,"I don’t really know, but I also couldn’t give a fuck. If you want to do something that isn’t hurting anyone else, then I support you. |
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| It’s not about whether you understand it or not or whether you believe in it or not, it’s about respecting people’s choices to be who they feel most comfortable being. |
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| We live fleetingly short lives on a random rock in the middle of space as a result of the coolest accident ever recorded. Do what makes you happy (so long as it doesn’t hurt other people) and don’t begrudge other people their right to the same thing. |
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| Edit 2: thanks for the awards :)",575,ask
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| Is it transphobic for a straight man to not want to date a transgender woman?,,963,No,844,ask
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| "how to make money online as a broke, with $0?",,605,"R/beer money. It sucks though, I never made much. I did the math and it’s about .50 cents an hour usd for the $25 or so dollars I earned. |
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| Coinbase: sign up and do some quizzes and you can make about 20 bucks pretty fast. I haven’t looked in to any other sites/apps but I’m sure there are a lot more out there. The downside is you have to provide your info, so it’s not really anon like Reddit",109,ask
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| Why does everyone on Reddit assume that everyone is a guy ?,,1243,*everyone*? Who
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| What country do you never want to visit and why?,,537,North Korea. A trip there only benefits the north Korean elite.,294,ask
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| "People who were once religious, what was the final straw that make you lose your faith?",,665,I never thought about it until an Atheist friend asked me questions I couldn
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| Do you think Epstein killed himself,,622,No,181,ask
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| "Never gonna give it up, but if Rickrolling let you down, what song would randomly annoy people just as much?",,529,Happy by Pharell,134,ask
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| "As a 19 year old, how will the climate crisis effect my life?","My teenage years have been filled with devastating news about the climate crisis and I just want to get an actual grasp of what my life might look like. |
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| I wanted kids but I feel it'd be selfish to bring children into this world and I know I'm not alone in this opinion. I've had to try to convince friends to not lose hope and commit suicide when I don't even think there's any point, I've spoken to doctors, helplines and therapists and no one can ever convince me there is hope. |
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| I just want to know if we have a chance.",628,"I'm not an expert but from what I understand there will be huge issues like Australia, California, Southern Europe and Siberia (yes Siberia) being on fire and other places (or the same... Poor Australia) getting flooded a lot. That said I don't think unless some unfortunate earthquake rubs yellowstone the wrong way anything of apocalyptic proportions will happen. We will have to prepare for higher temperatures and do what we can to be kind to nature and reduce our impact. Some damage is permanent or at least will last for hundreds of thousands of years. Best we can do is not do more damage and beyond that we need to learn to adapt and not get eradicated by the different climate. These weather extremes are capable of that but only if we let them. We just have to make sure our preventive measures don't hurt the planet further. |
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| TLDR: we fucked up a lot but not to the point that we're all dead. Earth is just gonna become rather hostile towards us rather than being the ideal planet for us to live on",100,ask
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| What comes to your mind when thinking of the Netherlands?,,625,Tall people riding bikes below sea level.,149,ask
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| "If you had the power to wipe out one subreddit, what would it be and why?",,1493,I would get rid of r/FreestylePeeing These people are degenerates. They call every person that is against their behavior a pedophile.,345,ask
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| "Why do people get so upset about taxing the super-rich? If you have 100 billion dollars and we took 50 billion for a better society (health care, child care, food, overpriced internet service, etc.) you would still have more money than you know what to do with.",,697,"From my point of view, it’s not inherently a “rich people” problem, as someone like Jeff Bezos net worth is mostly in Amazon stock, not cash. He doesn’t have 180 billion sitting in a savings account. |
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| Why are the vast majority of people such hateful cunts ?,,619,Online? Too easy. IRL? Upbringing.,80,ask
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| How can I make up my mind about getting vaccinated?,"This might me a long post, I’ll try to keep it short though. |
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| I am a 25 year old dude and I am not sure if I should get the vaccine or not. I live with my mom. She is quite a stubborn woman. If she is convinced of something, nothing will change her mind, not even facts. She is right no matter what. She is strongly against the vaccine. She looks up lots of information on it, information I believe to be false. She believes the conspiracy theories that our governments are trying to kill us because of overpopulation. She’s still saying she doesn’t believe corona is real. She has a friend who’s daughter has gotten vaccinated and my mom is calling her mental. Saying that if she can’t get pregnant anymore a couple of years from now it’ll be her own damn fault. |
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| I just told her that I’m thinking about getting it and she nearly flipped. She got this psycho look on her face and she said: “great. Do it. Your body. You take it. I won’t. War declared.” Whatever the hell she means by that. |
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| From a young age I have always let her influence my decisions. I made my choices the way I thought she wanted me to make them. Otherwise “mommy would get mad” or so I believed. And she still does. |
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| The friend I mentioned earlier, she is acquainted with a doctor. I don’t know what kind. But he tells her a lot about the vaccine, how it’s basically a toxin and how no one should take it. My mom heard this “information” from her friend and instantly believes it. If I send her articles from a trusted source with factual evidence, she disregards it. Because it doesn’t fit the narrative she has in her head. If I’d send her a bogus article about the virus being fake she’d believe it in a heartbeat. |
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| She keeps planting seeds of doubt in my head, regarding this decision and many other unrelated ones. Always warning me about dangers that don’t even exist. She’s overly protective, always has been. But I also see her as controlling. |
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| I have trouble making decisions on my own. Always need to ask others what they’d do. I think that’s because of how she raised me. I always have doubts until someone else takes them away. |
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| So pretty long post summed up: should I take the vaccine or not? Because I’m afraid of the side effects it might have in a couple of years, and I’m afraid of the effects it will have on my already strained relationship with my mom. We still live together so I want to keep that “pleasant”. What do you think I should do?",851,"The vaccine isn't really your problem. Your unhealthy dependence on your mother's opinion is. If you get the vaccine, you'll be fine. If you don't, you'll still probably be fine. But if you continue to be influenced by your mother, you'll end up exactly like her and you will not live a fulfilling live. I suggest that you talk to a psychologist.",411,ask
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| Im ugly af how can I make myself more attractive?,,1278,"Yeah maybe try to be known for something else other than your looks, like being kind, or funny, or helpful, people will forget about you being ugly, trust me",382,ask
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| Does anyone else enjoy the smell of gasoline (not an addict)?,"I've noticed my entire life that I really like the smell of gasoline when I'm fueling a car. I know it's not good for you and I'm not an inhaler, but is it just me? Some people seem to randomly like or dislike it and I don't know why there's such a difference in opinion on it.",850,"Everyone else thinks I’m weird. Sure I tried huffing it once when I was like 12, but I was 12. I don’t abuse it. I just like the smell when I’m filling the lawnmower or pulling up to a gas station, starting a fire etc",133,ask
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| Is it OK for a mother to call her son ugly or joke about him not being her real son?,,564,No,115,ask
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| Should I stay with my girlfriend even though she said she might break up with me in 4 months?,"Wow you guys have really put a lot of thought into this for me, I don't really use reddit and wasn't expecting much but you guys took this very seriously. I really like this girl and she really likes me but she is very career oriented and made a promise to herself when she was with her last bf that she would be single for grad school so she wouldn't feel guilty about chasing opportunities. |
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| Thanks for everyone's responses and the responses to come!",695,"Ask why she said that. Then if you don't like the answer or she turns it into a big fight, dump her.",137,ask
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| Is it normal for your body to feel like crap after getting the covid vaccine?,,986,"Yes, that's a standard side affect of a lot of vaccines. You'll feel better in a few days.",228,ask
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| What made you sad today?,,1096,The pics of the babies being hoisted over in Afghanistan. The desperate people.,237,ask
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| "Be honest, how are you?",,1453,"Not feeling so good today. Depression hits hard sometimes |
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| Thanks for the award :)",225,ask
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| Does anybody actually want to have a civil conversation about Covid-19?,,604,This virus sucks... I wanted zombies.,195,ask
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| What’s the first thing you do after coming home?,,1226,"Pet the wife, kiss the dog. |
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| No, wait…….",477,ask
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| What is something you genuinely don’t give a fuck about?,,975,"So called ""Reality TV"", or whatever the term is these days. |
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| And the things that call themselves ""Influencers"".",503,ask
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| What is everyone’s opinion on the Bible?,,710,tl;dr,629,ask
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| What made you forbid someone from ever entering your home again?,,1544,"She had sex with her bf on my bed and cum on my bed, her bf also threw up in my bedroom. it was my birthday |
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| It was my 23rd birthdays I invited some of my friends to my house. After the party is over, That friend and his bf were a bit drunk and ask me if they can take a nap in my bedroom ( my house only got one bedroom, the other two room I made them my home office and workshop), I wasn’t sleepy at the time so I said sure, they had sex there and I know because they made so much noise I can hear it from downstairs. I did not say anything cuz I am kinda embarrassed to say anything. Her bf was too drunk and threw up in my bedroom after they had sex. Worst birthday party in my life.",398,ask
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| why is facebook becoming unpopular?,,797,Have you been on Facebook recently? It
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| Why are some people on Reddit so mean?,"update: I'm sorry If I'm not able to individually reply to all your comments, but I thank you all for commenting on this post. ( Even if it's mean :D )",891,It is a microcosm of the world. There are mean people in the world so there are mean people here. There are plenty of very nice people here too of course.,227,ask
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| Does anyone else here hate the country they live in and wish they could leave?,,1796,"Yes I'm in Lebanon and we are facing the worst economic crisis in our history and it's actually one of the worst crises in the world since the 1850s. |
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| The political elite alongside banks stole all our deposits, wether they are in lebanese pound or in USD. |
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| Right now we have fuel shortage to the point where we must wait in queue for at least 3 hours to fill up our cars with gas and sometimes a day long in populated areas, and sometimes the station runs out of fuel when your turn comes. There are also queues for cooking gas, diesel for winter heaters, bread, governmental papers, etc. Add to that that we have at least 12 hours of blackout because there's also not enough fuel for electricity so we have to endure the heat and sweat and sleep on the balconies cz it's impossible to fall asleep in such a weather without at least a fan. |
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| Electricity shortage is also causing food poisoning because food can no longer be stored properly, so eating is a huge risk. |
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| If you get sick, there are neither medicines in pharmacies, nor a hospital to welcome you cz they also lack essential medical products. |
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| Moreover, prices of literally everything skyrocketed because our currency lost more than 90% of its value thus more than half of the people are no longer able to afford their basic needs and became below the poverty line. |
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| Just a matter of time and the internet and telecommunications will shut down. Again because companies will run out of fuel sometime. |
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| All this happened within less than two years. Lebanon is no longer habitable and the political elite is corrupt and it's impossible to change it right now because they still have supporters and armed thugs AND all the official armed forces are protecting them, while ordinary citizens are unarmed. I am leaving with my family as soon as I earn my Master's degree. Fortunately we withdrew all our money a few months before the crisis. Otherwise we could have never afford to leave.",305,ask
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| "Single people of Reddit; Be honest, what is the real reason you are not dating right now?",,814,The negatives exceed the positives,357,ask
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| Have you ever just cried because you’re you?,,589,most definitely. thank you for making me remember all the times i
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| Will the Taliban attack America?,,830,The Taliban want their own government. I think they will lay low if they want it to happen. Daesh however is more likely to attack because they are against the Taliban politics and want world terror,331,ask
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| "Redditor’s who enjoy being alone, why?",,504,"Gives me time to breath out, reflect, relax, and recharge for when I will next spend time with people",208,ask
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| Watcha doing?,,602,Touching grass,127,ask
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| "If you had the power to bring back anything in the world that’s no longer here , what would you bring back?",,880,All the money I’ve spent,447,ask
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| Does size actually matter to girls?,,1115,"Size definitely helps but it really comes down to if they know how to use it or not. Yes, a big one is nice but not always enjoyable. Average can be mind blowing! I have experienced both sides. I’d pick an average guy that knows his way around over a bigger size, hands down",470,ask
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| "Be honest, what's your purpose in life?",,733,I pass butter,281,ask
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| What is something a lot of people find attractive that is actually a turn off for you?,,684,Really really really long painted fingernails.. really long painted toenails.. worse,293,ask
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| What is the most overrated song you can think of?,,806,"Oh no, oh no , oh no no no!! |
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| I don't know the name but this song",370,ask
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| "Europeans of reddit, what do you think is the biggest problem facing europe today?",,840,"Same as everywhere, misinformation is rapidly becoming and will become the biggest problem, because it directly effects your ability to deal with every other problem.",273,ask
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| What’s your weapon of chose if a zombie apocalypse started tomorrow?,"?? I’m just in my thoughts rn |
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| 😳didn’t think this would get this out of hand",1167,"A lot of microcassette recorders full of Japanese porn audio. Throw one and go the other direction, watching the zombies shuffle toward the sound of a banshee with hiccups.",278,ask
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| Would you befriend/date a disabled person?,,1442,"Sure, why not",364,ask
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| Would you care to continue living if no one on this Earth will miss you when you die?,"Here is an elaboration of this question |
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| To some people, the only reason they don’t kill themselves is because they know that someone else will suffer if they are dead. Its basically a case of what happens when you are a reject of this society and has lost all hope. Everything that you accomplish in this world seems meaningless and you can’t even accomplish what you want or do what you want, because society has shut you out of those opportunities. The only reason I can see someone wanting to continue is if they are still attached to at least a person in the world. When one attempt suicide, they may think back to those who still cares and love them, and that thought alone might stop them from committing suicide.",609,"Yes because I live for me, not anyone else.",341,ask
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| What would you do if your partner kissed you after sucking your dick?,,528,I mean do you kiss her after you eat her pussy? It’s like… a two way street… my dude gives me kisses after eating me out and I love it. Kind of a power move,574,ask
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| "I kissed a girl who was in 5th grade when I was in the 7th grade. I was dumb and naive, none if us had hit puberty. For some reason my friends who know this call me a pedophile, are they wrong?",I am not attracted to kids. I know I
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| Anyone else get unreasonably and unnecessarily bothered by people that actually write Y
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| "Despite all the historical data, as well as the evidence we have of what's going on nowadays in several countries, why is there people who keep supporting communism?",,846,"Ok let's get some disclosure going. |
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| Are we talking North Korea/China here or are we talking ""I think universal social healthcare is communist""",184,ask
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| Pepsi or Coke?,,761,"I almost drowned when I tried to snort Pepsi, so definitely coke. |
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| What is love?,,1038,Baby don
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| What was your first phone ever?,,615,Fisher price chatter phone,153,ask
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| Is it normal to not want to have sex as a 19 year old?,,559,Completely,202,ask
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| What will cause the human race to go extinct eventually?,,1092,The human race.,1033,ask
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| Is it weird for your girlfriends brother to sleep with y’all in bed?,I am a 23yr female and my girlfriend is a 21yr female and i find it extremely odd and uncomfortable for him (18yr) to be sleeping in our bed. Mind you this is my 4th-ish time seeing him. We have a pullout bed for him but she invited him to bed with us for the second time after i have expressed my discomfort because she finds this normal…,1164,You sure it’s not her step-brother?,308,ask
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| does anyone else think deleting social media is a good idea,"i deleted tiktok, instagram, snapchat, twitter, facebook, and snapchat about a year ago and its been amazing i dont have to worry about any of it anymore. whenever i ask people if they would too they always ignore the question or say they never thought about it. to everyone who still posts photos of themselves online and constantly obsess about others lives online, why? |
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| edit: thanks for so many likes i never knew so many people did this!!",1076,I got rid of all social media except for Reddit.,210,ask
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| If everything needs a creator then who created God?,,758,"Rather you're a theist or not, somewhere along the line, you have to believe something came from nothing. |
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| Good luck wrapping your brain around that one! It also kinda flies in the face of conventional science. There really is no complete answer.",332,ask
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| Ever feel like your better off not saying much ever?,,512,considering i never think before i speak i prefer to just be silent to stop myself from saying something stupid cause when i do think about what im gonna say when im ready to say it the conversations already changed,86,ask
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| What’s an interesting fact about you?,,914,I jumped off a moving train and lost my virginity in the same night.,551,ask
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| What is something you will not buy “generic” or “off-brand”?,,941,Work boots and dog food,358,ask
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| What the dumbest person you have ever seen?,"Edit 1: I don’t know your FUCKING language very well, stop complain about my grammar. |
| Edit 2: Jokes about you is getting bored.",773,I once walked past a mirror.,519,ask
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| Have you ever get banned from any community?,,696,"I was banned from r/askreddit for posting a *public service phone number.* The mods said I posted “private information.” When I explained that it was a public service number, the response was “we don’t have time to look up every phone number. We will not discuss this again.” Banned.",372,ask
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| What’s the fastest way you’ve watched someone ruin their life?,,1185,"A former classmate needed money so he decided to rob a store with a gun. |
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| He told his roommate about his plan. The roommate threatened to call the cops, ""so they will be waiting for you"". |
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| He thought his roommate was bluffing. |
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| He wasn't. |
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| So goes to the store, pulls the gun and the cops swarm in and arrest him. End of world's shortest criminal career. |
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| Despite no prior record, a felony with a firearm conviction earned him five years in prison.",672,ask
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| "You walk into your house and all you exes are there. You can only reply with 3 words, what will you say?",,608,"Ok, who's pregnant?",475,ask
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| "Do you have a certain food that is so disgusting to you, that you cannot comprehend how anyone could like it?",,949,Liver,182,ask
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| How would you want to die?,,572,i wanna die while sleeping,325,ask
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| What do you think is the biggest RED Flag when it comes to dating?,,1062,"When she says she's been in love with you for years, ditches her husband, moves across country to be with you, Fucks you 17 times in 3 days, begins talking about a future together, makes you feel the happiest you've felt in years, isn't home when you get home from work, cash box has been broken into, $2,000, your laptop, your cell phone, your favorite leather jacket, gone, call the police and get told it's not burglary since she was there more than 24 hours, she calls 6 days later, says she went back to her husband and sold all your stuff, asks if you'll take her back. I think that's a pretty big red flag.",675,ask
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| would you fuck yourself from an alternate universe if that version of you was the gender you prefer?,,594,He
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| Why do people hate Jeff Bezos ?,,598,"Welp he the money used to fly his dick ship to space could have been used to give his employees better wages and benefits. |
| He doesnt pay taxes(maybe like 1 percent) |
| His workers are worked and treated like slaves. |
| Overall just a greedy douche exploiting his workers to death. |
| Only plus side is his push for marijuana legalization",399,ask
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| Why are you still single (USE 3 WORDS ONLY) ??,,605,Don
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| "Does anyone know what ""unclothed body search"" means for a female? I was told I will be required to undergo it as part of a short jail sentence. Does it really mean undressing? Can I keep bra and underwear? Is the modesty preserved? I am young and self-conscious...",,1384,"I believe you have to be 100% naked. I don't know this from personal experience, but they do it with guys, too. A friend got a DUI and did weekend jail. He had to get naked, bend over and cough.",521,ask
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| "Facebook, instagram and whatsapp have all crashed this past hr- for real- how do you survive?",,787,"I thought it was a problem from my internet at first, I almost smashed my phone |
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| Then I heard the news online and came here",247,ask
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| "If you became independently wealthy (let's say you now have a net worth of $20M+ USD), how much money would you feel obligated to give estranged immediate family members who you haven't spoken to in years who came asking for money?",,733,Zero. They hate me while poor they can hate me while rich.,395,ask
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| "what's the part of your body you hate the most, and why?",,510,Piece of shit uterus won’t stop cramping and bleeding for 0 good reason. Ffs it’s annoying.,277,ask
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| Anyone else absolutely hate tick tock?,,576,No i like the sound that old clocks make lmao,157,ask
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| Do men care about thigh gaps on women?,"I’m 5’3, female and weigh 107 lbs. my thighs still touch. I only have a very slight gap when I stand up as straight as I can white my feet together. But when I walk they still rub. My thighs make me very insecure. Do guys really care if women have thigh gaps or is more like women competing against each other? I know in the eating disorder community thigh gaps are a true sign of being skinny and attractive.",1190,"Focus on your thigh gap = attract men who care about stupid shit. Focus on your personality = attract men who care about you. It’s that simple. |
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| Edit: Thanks for all the votes, awards and comments kind strangers.",1072,ask
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| "What smells bad, but tastes good?",,1143,cheese.,416,ask
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| How much debt are you in? Just drop numbers no story. Mine is $2300,[⏺🔼⏹](https://imgur.com/a/S4rJJoA),2023,Your all welcome to the 2021 Oct Squid Games.,811,ask
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| "I'm stuck in school with no friends and no one to talk to, what do I do?",,601,I can be your online friend 😊,161,ask
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| Do you believe in GOD?,,1226,"No, but I'm willing to hear others views on it, as long as they don't push it on me.",418,ask
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| what gets you out of bed in the morning?,,1242,The alarm and the desire not to be homeless.,889,ask
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| "What are some mind-blowing facts that sound like 'BS', but are actually true?",,1056,"- Oxford University is older than the Aztec Empire https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/oxford-university-is-older-than-the-aztecs-1529607/. |
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| - Cleopatra lived closer in time to us than to the building of the pyramids. |
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| - Cows kill more people per year than sharks do https://www.discovery.com/nature/cows-kill-more-people-than-sharks. |
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| - John Tyler, the 10th president of the United States, has a living grandson https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.washingtonpost.com/history/2020/11/29/president-john-tyler-grandson-harrison/%3foutputType=amp. |
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| - Mammoths went extinct 1,000 years after the Egyptians finished building the Great Pyramid https://gizmodo.com/the-last-mammoths-died-out-just-3600-years-ago-but-th-5896262. |
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| - New York is further south than Rome, Italy. |
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| - North Korea and Finland are separated by one country. |
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| - Russia has a larger surface area than Pluto. |
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| - The difference in time between the Tyrannosaurus Rex and Stegosaurus is larger than the difference in time between the Tyrannosaurus Rex and now. |
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| - The last execution by guillotine in France took place the year that Star Wars was released. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.wired.com/2007/09/dayintech-0910-2/amp",581,ask
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| Which profession deserves highest salary?,,1265,The guy who made my Chinese food tonight. It was delicious. He deserves a raise. His name is Char-jil,724,ask
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| "What do men consider to be the romantic equivalent to flowers, etc?",,891,"For me it's any gift at all. Every woman I've been with never buys me stuff. Idk if women feel men don't need, want or appreciate gifts or if I just pick women that think that.",400,ask
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| Do you agree with marijuana being legal?,I think it is a great stress relief and a good way for me to sleep.,1960,"To quote out sheriff, ""I've never been assaulted by a stoner""",476,ask
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| "People with high IQ of Reddit, what advantages and downsides have you found during your life regarding said high IQ?",,676,"Did 3 'proper' IQ tests growing up, aged 12, 14 and 16. My school put certain kids forward for these formative IQ tests that were like exams and were externally marked and such. Aged 12 I got 144 IQ, aged 14 I got 132 IQ and aged 16 I got 138 IQ. 138 is the most recent score and also the average. That would put me in the 99th percentile, but the truth is that is does not matter whatsoever... seriously. I had to work less hard at maths and such than a lot of kids but this has just been worse for me in the long run; as Richard Feynman says, your intelligence is based around your willingness to learn, fail and apply yourself and think critically and is not measured by a number. If anything, higher IQ has meant I have lived much of my academic life on autopilot and I have lost the real meaning of intelligence as a result :)",378,ask
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| Can white people experience racism ?,,627,I would say any race of people can experience racism.,852,ask
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| What’s something you really resent paying for?,,1166,"Medications that I need to live. I have no objections to paying something but the prices Big Pharma charges are criminal. Example: I use an oral inhaler once a day for my asthma. Because of my health insurance deductible, I have to pay full price at the beginning of each year for the first refill. The container has 60 puffs, good for 60 days. The price without insurance is $480, or 8 dollars a puff. Why should I have to pay this much just to be able to breathe??",591,ask
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| "what's your code phrase for ""I have to go poop"" lol","Mine is ""I'm taking the hobbits to Isengard"" |
| Husband's is ""taking the browns to the super bowl"" |
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| P.S. please don't take this to heart or so seriously",1432,Gotta go see a man about a horse,279,ask
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| How do I fall asleep really quick?,"It's 2 am and I'm full of energy. How can I get to sleep? |
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| Ok you can stop now, it's morning",674,You pay me five dollars and I come over and punch ya in the head,223,ask
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| Im about to join the military in a couple of years and i do not like getting yelled at,Any advice?,897,YOU BETTER RETHINK YOUR DECISION.,566,ask
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| Would you consider 18/19 year olds to be teenagers?,Some people don
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| How has Michael Jackson survived cancellation?,,766,"Everyone survives cancellation. Mel Gibson was ""canceled"" for going on anti-semitic and homophobic rants but he's still making movies. |
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| Cancelling someone is just another word for shunning, but not everyone necessarily cares about this shunning. Just because a bunch of people on social media complain about someone (aka ""cancelling"") doesn't mean they disappear or that everyone cares.",346,ask
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| Can I go trick or treating this year one more time or is it too weird? I’m 25,"For context I haven’t gone since I was 15 but I wanted to go again this year for a last hurrah lol |
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| Edit ~ I’M A GIRL. I saw a lot of comments saying “male” and “he” if it’s because of the “grant” in my name that’s for a guy I’m in love with named grant. My bot in my profile picture is a girl one. Idk if gender makes a difference",595,"Take a child (with the parent's permission), put on a costume and go. |
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| I went last year with my Grandchildren. Dressed as a Mexican luchador. |
| Got tons of candy. |
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| Edit: thank you for the award",233,ask
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| do guys actually care about ass size??,"i have a follow up question. you know those really really big fake ones…do you actually find them attractive ??? |
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| edit: i am surprised this many guys care about ass size. never had this many replies lol |
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| edit 2: from a fellow redditor in the comments we have another question: |
| “Follow up to OP's question: for the ass lovers, do you care about cellulite and ass dimples? All the p videos I've seen (even BBWs) seem to have women with totally smooth, sometimes jiggly, asses. Idfk how you grow an ass that fat and it NOT have cellulite. I'm insecure about my body, especially my ass, for that reason. So, what are your thoughts?”",550,"For some its the view, for others its what it do.",463,ask
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| Would you clean toilets all day for a six figure salary?,,1526,Do the six figures include the cents?,405,ask
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| What would you change about yourself if you could?,,799,Be a lot more confident,372,ask
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| "Does anyone out there on reddit know the meaning when a GF says she needs to ""find herself, find out who she is?"" I know, dumb question...just asking.",,692,"In my experience, she probably wants to break up and wants to do it gently.",527,ask
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| Do you think it
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| What caused your biggest existential crisis in life?,,792,"Too much LSD over 15 yrs, followed by a bipolar 2 diagnosis, then 5 yrs of hell bc some of my meds weren't correct. Blew up most of my life and now I'm rebuilding (yet again) close to 40.",335,ask
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| Do you truly think money can buy happiness?,,1482,"literally every problem I have could be fixed with money, and not having all that stress would certainly make me happy",858,ask
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| Is not wanting to date a trans person considered transphobic?,,932,"Im trans and i say no. if im being honest, its not exactly the same as dating a woman. we want it to be, but there is often something extra still around... Nah, just be nice to us. its ok",1132,ask
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| What is the most annoying thing a visitor has ever done in your house?,,1702,Ran through my closed screen door.,811,ask
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| Whats the best way to get a guest who has over stayed there welcome out of your house?,,1485,"I mean. Since no additional specifications were given, I vote you set the house on fire. It will most definitely do the job.",532,ask
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| What are some things that Canadians do?,I recently discovered that I
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| What video game needs a movie?,,559,"Zelda, animated by Studio Ghibli.",223,ask
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| Your Halloween costume is “sexy” plus the last thing you googled searched what is it ?,,1208,Sexy locksmith in my area,467,ask
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| How do you feel about dating coworkers?,,627,All fun and games until yall break up and have to see each other everyday and who knows maybe it
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| "If War started,, would you fight for your country?",,815,Not risking my life cause some fatasses in suits called eachother dumb and were too lazy to fight,402,ask
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| How old is too old to trick or treat?,"All my friends (who live in other states) are, and I really want to, but my parent says I am too old. |
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| Edit: Thank you all so much for responding! I went with my little sister, and we both had lots of fun. Happy Halloween!!!",1108,No one is too old to trick or treat. My grandma is 72 and is still as excited as ever to go trick or treat. She wears a costume and all. It’s honestly adorable and gives me a sense of hope for humanity.,418,ask
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| What fact blows your mind everytime ?,,666,"That there are 10,000x more stars in the universe than grains of sand in all the deserts and beaches of Earth combined.",506,ask
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| Are there things you do exclusively with your off hand?,I’m right handed and I always squeeze the toothpaste tube with my left hand. Doing with my right hand feels weird and wrong.,580,Faping,171,ask
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| What’s the most toxic sub on Reddit?,,1619,r/AmItheAsshole Sorting by new its just a bunch of assholes looking for validation and hoping people will side with them even though they are most definitely the asshole.,873,ask
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| Do people actually commit to NO NUT NOVEMBER or is it just a running joke that everyone just goes with?,I genuinely wanna know,1934,"Aw, shit I forgot. Well, I’m out.",545,ask
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| My school is allowing us to put quotes on our senior jackets but I
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| "Without referencing Donald Trump, what are your thoughts on Joe Biden?",,886,He is way too old for office.,587,ask
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| What is something you will never tell anyone ?,,1312,"the full extent to which my mental illnesses impact my daily life. I'll tell you I'm disabled and that's about it. i wont tell you about the rumination, the passive suicidal thoughts, none of thst depressing shit. |
| I'll just tell you""I'm tired"" so you'll leave me alone because i get the impression that nobody really gives a shit about me |
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| edit: i love each and everyone here. thank you. |
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| edit 2: even the guy that wasted money to give me gold.",545,ask
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| Do white peoples hair really need a wash after a day?,"I’m a black woman and was recently told by a white friend that she washes her hair daily. If you didn’t know, for black hair that would be harmful, which was why her telling me this was so shocking to me. |
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| I knew white people had to clean their hair more often, just not daily. Is this true? Or is my friend unintentionally fucking up her hair?",848,"It depends on your hair and skin type. People who tend to have oily skin and very straight hair will need to wash more often, but I would advise them not to everyday. My hair has got loose curls, so I wash my hair about twice a week, and rinse without washing once a week.",374,ask
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| What product has an insane markup by the time it gets to the consumer?,,594,Soft drinks. 3 cents to make. Think on that Mark up!,417,ask
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| How do I tell my wife it would be best if she didn |
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| You may think I would be able to revoke said clause, but since she was my partner when she started working, I left it entirely in the hands of the HR. They have just notified me that a notice has been sent to her as well as the company. I expect it to be a stormy night tonight. How do I handle this situation with hurting either of them? |
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| If you could only eat 1 food for the rest of your life what would it be?,Let’s just pretend you don’t need water and nutrition doesn’t matter so you’ll stay the same weight etc.,673,A hamburger with everything on it because everything is on it.,256,ask
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| Is it weird for me (22F) to bring a blanket to the movie theaters?,"My parents and I were about to go to the theater to see a REALLY long movie. So I decided i’d bring a blanket in there so I could relax. I’ve seen other people do it, and I thought it be a neat idea. And also it gets cold in there- a jacket doesn’t normally cover enough. |
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| So we were about to go, and then my parents made a big fuss about me bringing it. They made me feel like an alien, like it was the weirdest thing ever. And they made it seem like I was holding everything up. “Come, on. Why are you doing this??” |
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| I didn’t think it was a big deal. |
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| Is it unheard of to bring a blanket to the theaters?",2157,If I saw someone in a blanket I genuinely wouldn
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| Which cartoon character relates to your personality?,,743,Squidward,353,ask
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| "If a machine was built that could tell the absolute truth of anything, what would you ask of it?",,1218,What / if the afterlife exists and which is the correct way to get the good ending.,397,ask
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| "Anti gun people, what are some ways to defend your home from an intruder?",,505,I have a super soaker filled with ghost pepper sauce and vinegar,454,ask
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| Which social media platform do you think is the worst?,,1053,Facebook because of what it’s done to all of our parents,737,ask
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| What are the things you are doing to make yourself calm?,,685,"Space out, listen to music, have a screen in my face to distract me, . . . |
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| petting dog, pet and scratch dog a lot, embrace dog's head, kiss dog on cheek, be happy to have pet dog. |
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| Dog usually works for me.",278,ask
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| "In your opinion, if you willingly refuse to take the covid vaccine, should you be allowed to go to hospital for treatment, if you catch the virus?",,801,"Yes because we are not animals. We treat people even if they are incorrect in their thinking that exposed them to their illness. |
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| We also don’t turn any people that are sick because of their eating habits ,consuming drugs that are harmful ( ie cigarettes/ illegal drugs) , their level of physical fitness. |
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| We as people should believe that medical attention should be available for all that are sick ( or maybe this is just a Canadian thing with socialized medicine and all) |
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| It feels good to our egos to get mad at these people ( and I know I’ve had my moments) but we don’t give into these feelings as a population because it’s not ethical . |
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| For clarification, I’m fully vaccinated and was pro-vaccination long before anyone thought of covid but we cannot treat those that are lost to science like animals. |
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| Edit: thank you for the awards and upvotes, but more importantly thank you people for taking the time to make me feel like I might be on the right track with this line of thinking... Your all awesome!!! |
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| Edit two : I'm not going to answer hypothetical questions cause the answers to those questions are for smarter minds then mine. The dynamics of making health care decisions in a real “ triage event “ are beyond anything I can even imagine and that goes for most of the people in this thread. I would almost guess 100 percent of this thread. |
| I gave my answer to this question honestly and as clearly as I could.",525,ask
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| "What movie is so bad, you can’t manage to sit through it?",,600,The emoji movie,225,ask
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| My dog died today. Can you give me a joke to laugh at?,I really need this right now.,653,"Sorry for your loss. |
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| Mouse to mouse resuscitation!",239,ask
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| What free things should everyone take advantage of?,"Y'all share yours, and Ill share mine |
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| [https://www.reddit.com/r/RequestASite/comments/qn35qt/megacollection\_incomplete/](https://www.reddit.com/r/RequestASite/comments/qn35qt/megacollection_incomplete/)",882,"The elites don't want you to know this, but the ducks at the park are free and you can take them home. I have 458 ducks.",450,ask
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| Who or what do you blame all your problems on?,,938,"Past me, he's an idiot. Always clearing up his mess",858,ask
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| "Seeing all the depressed and suicidal posts on Reddit, is it really so bad everywhere?","Ever since I've joined reddit I've seen alot of posts where people are severely depressed and preparing for suicide. Many people having no jobs, people feeling they have no loved ones, people getting abuse etc. |
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| So is it really that bad everywhere in the world and especially the western side? |
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| Im from Pakistan and this country is ranked among the lowest in every type of thing you can name of. From cleanliness to progress, govt corruption to personal corruption, degrading economy to degrading human morals etc. Even own job in health department as a doctor is where I have to use my salary to pay govt's bills without ever getting reimbursed, doing things no other countrys doctor would ever think they'd be made to do. And every field is like this in Pakistan. And still depression is high and jobs are low. |
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| But we here have always thought that it might be better in the west where the justice is better, security is better, economy is better etc (as compared to Pakistan atleast). But seeing reddit posts is really making me worried that is it really so bad everywhere?",552,"Reddit is not a good mirror to base that conclusion on. |
| There are way more sad posts because happy people tend to vent less to strangers online",226,ask
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| What comment got you downvotes like it was raining?,,1527,"I referred to Jeff Bezos as a human rights abuser for placing bathrooms in Amazon warehouses so far away from the workstation that you either need to pee in a bottle or use your lunch break to go to the (actual) bathroom. |
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| Somebody referred to the downvoters as “BezoBots” and I totally agree with that looking back.",605,ask
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| "If you woke up in China, what would you do first?",,629,Go pee,254,ask
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| "If Squid Game was based in America, what children’s games would you have liked to see included?",,920,Floor is lava,546,ask
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| How would you describe your country using only one word?,,1298,Long,208,ask
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| "Men, How do you wipe ?",I’m a male and I have always wiped back to front . I understand that isn’t “normal” but it gets me way cleaner than the other way around . Just wanting a general consensus about this . Surely there are others out there that prefer this method as well.,636,30 grit sandpaper on my belt sander. Usually about 2 minutes or until the bleeding stops,387,ask
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| "People who use neopronouns, why?","I myself am a part of the LGBTQIA+ community as a gay woman, and have several non-binary friends, but all of them use they/them pronouns. In fact, for a portion of my youth (while coming to terms with my sexuality) I also used they/them pronouns until I felt more comfortable in my gender. However, I don't personally know anyone who uses neopronouns, and am genuinely curious about what led you to identifying with your specific pronouns? Do you feel uncomfortable with being referred to as they/them even though they are gender-neutral? Which neopronouns do you use?",622,"See I come from a place where there is no gender in the language. You'll recognise the person from context. With that said, I 100% don't mind being called they/them if someone does that, which I don't see the point of since I'm obviously a male person.",136,ask
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| "If you could rid the world of ONE thing, WHAT would it be?",,972,"Assholes - jerks, not necessarily the body part.",391,ask
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| Parents of reddit is this a very extreme punishment for the reasoning?,"So recently I got grounded because I came home with a painted nails cuz my girlfriend thought it would be fun to paint them as a joke, so I let her. when I got in my father's car he asked me if I had fun and if I enjoyed my self I answered with yes but then I showed him the painted nails and he freaked out saying how it was devil worshipping, gay, sissy like, and many more things (they were painted black). He then proceeded to take my phone away for the rest of the night and have me remove the nail polish. The next morning he ground me for the next three weeks from seeing her. Do you think this was an extreme reaction to me letting her paint my nails?",800,It is extreme. Just have her paint your toenails next time. Lol,427,ask
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| I think I found my brothers girlfriend on a adult website!!!!!!," |
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| (update I showed my brother and he was worried at first but then confirmed that the girl in the video is not his girlfriend but looks very very similar I am glad to hear that and to the people wondering no I did not fail nnn I’m still going strong but most likely gonna fail next week anyways I appreciate the feedback people gave and it gave me a better way how to handle the situation thank you to all the helped and have a nice day)",522,"Is there a possibility that the bloke is your brother? |
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| I advise against speaking to the girlfriend first, as this is dangerous. Source: Columbo.",132,ask
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| "All ethics aside, what animal would you most like to have as a pet?",,1268,I would really like a capybara,417,ask
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| Do you believe in the “Once a cheater always a cheater” philosophy? Why or why not?,,707,"Once you cheat, nothing can make that action be undone, so you'll always be branded a cheater. Not to mean that necessarily you'll cheat again. But if you murder one person and don't do it again, does it make you any less of a murderer?",292,ask
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| Is it cowardice to run away from someone trying to beat you up?,,671,First rule of self defence is to avoid conflict so running away is key part of defence.,425,ask
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| What’s a good name for a hamster?,"If a hamster were to have the name Bubble, would u do bubble or bubbles",620,Xx_420_megatron_69_xX,259,ask
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| What’s your opinion about the Rittenhouse verdict?,No downvoting and be civil,666,"Here you go: |
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| I have watched the whole Rittenhouse case. The Jury is in deliberation now. |
| I didn't know that Kyle put out a dumpster fire that was being rolled down to a gas station to blow up, with people all around. |
| I didn't know that the Police were told to stand down as businesses were destroyed. |
| I didn't know that Kyles Dad, Grandma and Friends all lived in Kenosha, 20 minutes from where he resided with his Mom part time in Illinois. |
| I didn't know that Joseph Rosenbaum knocked him down twice and then attempted to kick him with lethal force to the head. I didn't know that Huber had hit him in the head 2x with a skateboard. |
| I didn't know Gaige Grosskreutz, a felon in possession of firearm, aimed his gun at Kyle first, as he admitted on the stand. |
| I also didn't know that in the State of Wisconsin, it is legal for Kyle to have a gun, even at 17 (which was why the gun charge was dismissed). |
| I didn't know that Kyle did not cross state lines with a gun he wasn't supposed to have. The rightful gun owner did, as he was legally permitted to do. |
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| I also didn't realize that Rosenbaum was a 5 time convicted child rapist and that Huber was a 2 time convicted woman beater. I didn't know that Grosskreutz was a convicted Burglar with an assault on his record also. |
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| IF THE MEDIA DID THEIR JOB... we would ALL have known this.",639,ask
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| I’m pretty sure my best friend is a manipulative narcissist.. I need advice. Can’t believe she did this..,"So I’m a 25 yo female, recently started working at a bank. This is where I met Lisa. Lisa is 21 years old, a beautiful girl and we vibed immediately. We were the only two girls at the bank who go out of our way to look good and we do get a lot of attention. |
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| We kind of look alike, both have black hair, blue eyes, and we also have a similar body shape, both are busty, wide hips, small waist. She is a little chubbier than me and has a bit of a belly and thicker arms but both the same height (I’m 5’3 she’s 5’3 1/2). You may be thinking, why are these details important- you’ll find out why in a second. |
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| When I first met Lisa, she told me she was Russian.. because I’m middle eastern, I kind of felt a first generation American daughter of immigrants connection. We joked about our immigrant parents’ silly/quirky ways, talked about our language differences, etc. we were inseparable. However, things started taking a turning point. The more I got to know Lisa, the more I started feeling bad about myself.. |
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| She would constantly make remarks that sounded mean, but she’d insist she meant it in a sweet way. One time, randomly, she said that she’s taller than me so she appeared thinner and I was “stubby”. I told her that I didn’t really like being called stubby and she kept insisting that she meant it in an adorable way.. bare in mind, she’s only half an inch taller than me but she weighs about 180 and I weigh 140. I have no fat around my waist or arms but she does. |
| Whenever we’d be around a group of guys, she’d constantly show them embarrassing videos of me, and laugh as if she’s just joking. I’ve told her many times that I didn’t like when she does that and she’d keep saying that she’d stop.. but she never did. |
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| She’d always act like we were competing over these men.. and would be super aggressive about it.. even though I genuinely was not competing. She loves black men and hates white men. I love white men and whenever there’d be a white guy who would hit on me, she’d get aggressively sexual with him (while her bf is at home).. and because I don’t do that in the first interaction, the guy would then turn his attention to her. She’d take his number and never call him, and then talk about how ugly he was and how she was just “messing around” when hitting on him. |
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| Another time I felt off was when we were watching a movie that had nothing to do with middle Eastern women. She turned and looked at me randomly and said, “I think middle Eastern women are ugly,”. Again- I’m middle Eastern and she knows that. I didn’t argue with her because I felt like maybe she was saying these things because she felt insecure and I felt bad for her, so I let her win that one. It still hurt my feelings that my friend said something like that to me, but whatever. |
| A few weeks later we were going to go to her family’s thanksgiving. While we were getting ready, she confessed that she wasn’t Russian of the daughter of immigrants. The entire time she was confessing, she was laughing hysterically as if it was just a “stupid prank”.. |
| the issue, however, is that it didn’t seem that way. She didn’t just lie to me, she lied to our entire company, her boyfriend, every guy we’d run into, etc. she even learned the language to come off more convincing 🤦🏻♀️ |
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| I found out she lied because she wanted to come off as “exotic” and “foreign”, not “boring and white” (her words not mine). She only confessed the truth because I was meeting her very redneck family of Irish and polish descent. It felt kinda weird but I wasn’t mad, I was more shocked. |
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| Her backhanded compliments, lies, talking badly about me to our other friend Carlie (who she admitted she didn’t like because Carlie gets more attention than her) continued for months.. until one day I couldn’t take it anymore and confronted her about it. She gaslit me and denied everything.. even after I promised her I wouldn’t get upset if she just is open and honest with me. She insisted it was all in my head and got aggressive with me. Started yellling horrible things at me, like how I deserved my ex breaking my shoulder- and when I started to walk away crying, she started laughing hysterically like a psychopath. |
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| Jump to a few months later, a few weeks ago I felt bad losing her as a friend and tried to reconnect with her. She insisted I apologize and I did. She then invited me to her bday party.. when I got there, there were 20 dudes I didn’t know. I walked in on her playing those same embarrassing videos of me from before.. she says come on in we’re watching you act stupid. |
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| While they all laughed, I was visibly uncomfortable and upset. She didn’t really care and kept going. Again, after trying to talk to her about it, I was gaslit. |
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| I guess I need advice. What would you do in a situation like that?",918,"Read your post as if someone else wrote it. |
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| What movie will you ALWAYS stop and watch when you find it on tv?,,1117,5th element,285,ask
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| What food did you think was gross as a child but started eating it as an adult?,,701,Mushrooms 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼,316,ask
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| If “you are what you eat” then what are YOU?,,1205,McDonald’s with a hint of anxiety fueled lip skin 🥴,295,ask
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| Edit: Thanks for the awards guys 😊😊😊😊",745,Still have a comfort blanket I’m 53 😂,260,ask
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| People who live shit lives what keeps you going?,what is keeping you alive in this life.,693,Knowing my death will hurt others.,488,ask
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| "Ladies, what does it feel like to wear a pad on your periods?","EDIT: I never expected so many answers on this post, thank you all. I also never realized that periods could be this unpleasant. I’m all the more amazed by how people experience all this and yet carry on with their regular lives and I haven’t even considered the other aspects like cramps, as some of you have pointed out.",807,"It
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| "Typically, what's the strongest muscle in the human body?",,527,"The ones in your jaw. They are they strongest. |
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| What does a little heart tattoo under a girls left eye signify?,,529,i thought those girls were just copying harley quinn lol,332,ask
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| is sexting with a stranger cheating if you’re in a relationship?,"curious to know what your thoughts are on whether it’s okay or not for a partner to sext strangers without telling their partner |
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| Should women be able to be topless in public?,"Recently saw a video of some band playing and One of the bandmembers was a woman and she wore a mesh shirt but without a bra. |
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| All the commons were criticizing her and saying that’s inappropriate but honestly I don’t see boobs as a sexual thing at all. |
| I’m not American. |
| I’m from Europe so maybe it’s a cultural difference. |
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| But I wanted to know should women be able to be topless in public like men. |
| Of course I know a lot of women wouldn’t want to do that even if it were legal because harassment. |
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| But honestly I wouldn’t care if women were out and about without a bra or shirt because I wouldn’t harass them over that. |
| So yeah should women Be able to be topless and braless in public like men? |
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| I know a lot of dudes probably will say yes just because then they get to stare at boobs but I would actually like serious answers.",1355,"Should they? Well, if men can do it and it’s viewed as completely normal, so should women. |
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| It just takes a massive amount of unlearning/reframing boobs as not inherently sexual or immodest. Chests on women are just fleshier than men in general.",350,ask
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| A college kid called me “mommy”,"I was walking down the street and a car full of college boys drove by. One of them leaned out the window and yelled “mommy!” at me. I’m a 37 year old woman. I’m not up to date with the current slangs of kids. What did that mean? Should I be offended? |
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| I mean “offended” with a grain of salt. Obviously it was disrespectful, no matter what it means. But I’m not obsessing over it or anything. Ultimately, I was just curious what it meant. |
| Also, this boy was a white kid from the Midwest. He wasn’t saying “Mami”. I would have understood that connotation. |
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| I’ve been heartened by all the good people out there who understand cat calling to be a form of harassment. I’ve been cat called since 5th grade and it can be scary. It can make you feel vulnerable and violated. I’m glad to see so many young men who get that. The world has a lot of good in it ☺️",1369,"He was expressing the fact he found you sexually desirable. he was attracted to you. he was not a gentleman i will say lol. |
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| Why do people hate vegans?,,1195,"Most people only hate the vegans that try and make everyone else vegans too and constantly critique you for being a ""murderer"" and think they're superior. Other than those people there is some unnecessary hate towards vegans.",1079,ask
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| Sometimes I hear my parents having sex. Should I tell them?,"Some nights I can hear them doin the deed. At first it was traumatizing, then the next couple of times it was just like bro Ion wanna hear this shit anymore. They always think everyone is asleep when in reality I’m awake and I’m the only one that hears them doin the thang. |
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| It’s actually irritating and it gets me bothered. Tf should I do?",525,"Next time it happens, call their phone while they are doing it and tell them you think there's a wounded raccoon in your wall and that you called pest control - who listened in, agreed, and are on their way over.",474,ask
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| Do you pee in the shower?,"My roomate (f) and i (m) just had an accidental discussion yesterday when i told her that i sometimes pee while i shower. She told me that it was disgusting and i was like ""what kind of psychopath doesn't pee in the shower??!"" |
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| So now im actually questioning if peeing in the shower is a normal thing or not lol. Because i feel a bit bad by how disgusted she was.",1464,There is 2 type of people: those who pee in the shower and those who lie about it.,464,ask
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| "People of Reddit,Which U.S. state would you have removed?","The Most Voted state will be removed from my map(No Voting Twice) |
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| THE RESULTS HAVE BEEN FINSIHED,YOU CAN STILL TO CHANGE ON THE UPDATE POST! |
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| State to be Destroyed - AT 900 comments |
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| 1-Florida- [ Operation ICBM]- DESTROYED |
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| 2-Ohio-[ Operation ICBM]-DESTROYED AND MICHIGAN |
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| 3-Kentucky-[ Operation ICBM]- DESTROYED |
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| State to be Destroyed -600 comments |
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| 1- Texas -49[PROGRAM:NUKE TEXAS]--AUTHORIZED BY[u/ParsnipBusy]-Destroyed |
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| 2-Florida-30 |
| 3-Ohio 14 |
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| State to be Destroyed -300 comments |
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| 1- California-43-[PROGRAM:FLOOD CALIFORNIA-- AUTHORIZED BY[u/halfasshippie3]-Destroyed |
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| Then, Ohio in 4th",893,The constant state of depression and self loathing that I find myself in,609,ask
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| What is peoples biggest misconception about you?,,746,"That I work hard, ever since I was in primary school everybody use to congratulate me for working hard, what they don't know is that I'm supper lazy and just do the bare minimum effectively.",355,ask
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| What are you supposed to be doing right now?,,922,Quitting my job,276,ask
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| is my name racist?,"Hi! Basically, I came outta the womb looking like a ghost (well, technically a smurf at first, but thats another story) and my dad, being the neo-nazi he is, decided my middle name should be Aryanna, derived from Aryan. I'm just now learning of its Nazi useage and I'm wondering, Is my name racist?",721,"People are racist, names not so much.",730,ask
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| I keep hearing Morse code... Is there a reason for this?,"More specifically, I am in bed cuddling with my toddler as they were having a fussy morning. I put my head down on the pillow and I start to hear a faint. ""Dah dah di dah"" beeping noise followed by a pause and then it repeats. When lift my head up, I cannot hear it anymore |
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| Is it tinnitus? Is there some electronic that I can faintly hear? Does my neighbor have an underground bunker and is sending out the Morse code for Q because he is in Qanon? I'm so confused as to why I'm hearing the beeping",532,Do you have re-Morse for anything from your past? It’s your past catching up with you,245,ask
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| What is something unrealistic that you often see in movies that annoys the hell out of you?,,1293,"Why movies go out of their way to CGI a venomous coral snake, but can't be bothered to put the stripes in the right order, thus making it a non-venomous king snake.",753,ask
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| Why did you stop using Facebook?,,615,"I stopped using FB because I started hating relatives and casual friends. |
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| How do guys really feel about small boobs?,,764,"With both hands, usually.",633,ask
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| What is the term or phrase for getting bored for doing things over and over or experiencing things repetitively?,,547,Monotony?,232,ask
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| What is your most controversial parenting opinion?,,1148,"That children should be taught the correct/scientific names for their body parts. It freaks a lot of parents (and non-parents) out to imagine a 5yo say 'vagina', but teaching them words like 'cookie' or 'foofoo' just creates a sense of shame and weirdness around their own anatomy. Plus, if they (god forbid) get abused, it can be extremely difficult to get places to take a disclosure seriously if the kid says 'he/she licked my cookie', for example. |
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| "What is, in your humble opinion, the best TV show on the planet?",,1085,Breaking bad,379,ask
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| "If Bohemian Rhapsody is Queen's ""signature song"", what are other bands signature songs?",,1639,Journey - Don
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| YouTube channels like Oversimplified and kursgesagts.,"Hey guys, any recommendations for YouTube channels like Oversimplified? Where you can learn stuff(science, history, basically general subjects) in simple eli5 ways and that's fun to watch? |
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| Why is “Let’s go Brandon!” still a thing?,"I live in a fairly conservative area and several weeks ago someone explained to me what this meant. Fast forward and I’m seeing T-shirts and still hearing it chanted at Sporting events. I am not Pro Biden in anyway, nor am I anti-free speech. I just don’t understand why is funny / worth buying a T-shirt over. Why not just say F*ck Biden?",530,"A couple of different reasons, not the least of which is it's more ""family friendly"" because a lot of our society still frowns on F-Bombs in public. |
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| Another theorized reason is the original incident that cooked it off consisted of a reporter trying to cover for a crowd chant of ""F\*\*\* Joe Biden"" in the background by saying that they were really chanting ""let's go Brandon,"" and people are tired of being told by the media what they are seeing and hearing isn't real. There might be some merit to that, but I think the first reason I gave is the main one.",161,ask
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| Parent threatening to close bank account and take al the money.,,568,You could go to the bank and withdraw it all as cash.,292,ask
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| "Ladies and gentlemen, what is the most attractive thing a woman can do that isn't sexual?",Lowkey just curious. Can also say what
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| Do you think Jussie Smollett should go to jail?,"The now confirmed fake race hoax trial has concluded do you think he should go to jail when found guilty? |
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| If you’re silent the majority of the time they’re probably unaware of how sound travels between neighbours.",549,ask
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| What the fuck is a banana on the reddit recap,I got 10.8k bananas what is that,1043,Banana for scale,297,ask
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| My boyfriend calls me names,"I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant(32) and my boyfriend(49) is calling me names all the time. Today was “fucking psycho” among others. It’s been a thing since the beginning of our relationship. He finds ways to justify his behavior, never apologizes on his own. He bullies me when I stand up for myself. It’s tough if I stay and it’s tough if I leave. Any advice from women who had been in similar situation?",723,"Yes. I had this happen to me… |
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| What was it like growing up without the internet?,,891,No one has record of any dumb stuff i did or said as a kid.,443,ask
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| What unpopular opinion do you have?,,585,"The US presidency should have an maximum age. And it should be lower than most people would think. Anyone old enough to retire is out of touch with modernity. |
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| New Zealand just announced that anyone born after 2007 will never be able to purchase cigarettes or tobacco. What are your thoughts on this?,,1133,I'm sure vape companies are ecstatic.,237,ask
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| What am I supposed to replace the N word with when singing songs that have it?(Like in rap),"I usually say “guy” or something similar, but sometimes the flow gets messed up. So whats the best alternative?",880,"I was in a house party in Ireland and Juicy by Biggy Smalls was on and everyone was singing along. When it got to ""if ya don
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| What’s your personal method to get rid of a stomach ache?,"because god really does give his baddest bitches the worst tummy issues |
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| Can you just be friends with the opposite gender?,"Do you feel that a male and female can just be friends? |
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| PLEASE NOTE: I’m asking this as a surveying question to get different views, not in the naive sense of me not knowing if I can be friends with someone of the opposite sex. Please do not be rude/disrespectful in here, thank you!! 🙏🏻😊",747,"No, at some point you will try 50 rounds on Mario Party 7 with them and by the end everyone will hate each other.",457,ask
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| "Who is someone who, in a sense, will live forever?","Whether figuratively, metaphorically, or somehow literally...who is a historical figure or someone you know personally that is currently alive or already deceased that will live on forever and how?",754,Adolf Hitler. He will be an example of fascism forever in my opinion.,598,ask
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| What secret are you Proudly hiding from your family and friends?,,1499,"Ever since I was able to earn my own money, I have been sneaking cash into my Mom's wallet. We grew up in a very poor single parent household. I took advantage of her forgetfulness. She doesn't know.",1642,ask
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| Do you say SAMwhich or SANDwhich ??,I noticed people say different things .. I say sandwhich.,977,More like san-which,646,ask
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| If someone is strangling you what is the best way to fight back?,,565,"If they’re in front of you - put your arms elbow deep between their arms and push out as hard as you can |
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| What video game did you spend the most time playing as a child?,I spent a lot of time playing lion king for sega genesis back when if you lost all your lives in a game you started at the beginning. Jumping up those logs on that waterfall still gives me anxiety just thinking about it.,630,Mario Kart 64. Time well spent.,85,ask
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| "Introverts, what annoys you the most?",,743,People who have no respect for the fact that I need a lot of time completely by myself.,568,ask
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| What discontinued product do you wish they would bring back?,,1303,"$700 apartments |
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| Should a transgender person tell partners before having sex?,For those asking “is this even a question” to me no. I think the answer is obvious. However I have seen a lot lately with ppl saying they do not need to disclose this information even if in a full blown relationship.,632,"Yes and they should tell in a safe situation, not right there in the bed.",796,ask
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| "If every other animal on earth suddenly collectively hive minded to fight humanity, who would win?","Ignore after math and stuff, and if we’d lose name the main species that would defeat us and maybe one that could beat us themselves |
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| "If Joe Biden were a food, what food would he be?",,562,I don’t remember,412,ask
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| What are the things that can only be understood through experience?,,806,Grief and loss,399,ask
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| "Is tracking your kid a sign of toxicity, or normal?","I don't know if this goes here, but I can't find anywhere else. |
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| I'm almost 16 years old. It doesn't feel right for my parents to track someone almost 16 nonstop. |
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| I will admit, I figured out I could reverse it on them and track them as well, but I feel like it is justified.",861,"If they are actively checking it then it's creepy. |
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| If you’re an atheist what would you say instead of oh my god?,,823,"I like when Bender(from the show Futurama) said the phrase, “oh your god.”(with pauses between each word).",614,ask
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| "If it came down to it, while your wife is giving birth and only one survives. Do you save your wife or the baby ?",,721,"I would hate the decision, but my wife. I could live without a child. I couldn't keep going without her.",635,ask
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| What T.V. series had the best finale ever?,,1143,Breaking bad,420,ask
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| What you want for christmas?,,533,Happiness. Desperately need it,381,ask
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| Is America really that bad?,I follow whitepeopletwitter and see all these posts about how corrupt and shitty America is. To the Americans of reddit. Is it really that bad or is it exaggerated?,1721,If you put your phone down and turn off the news it
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| "Having an argument with my wife, and she's decided to let reddit decide!","Tl;dr my wife thinks that traditional glazed donuts taste good *dipped in ranch dressing*. |
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| I think this is crazy, what do ya'll think? |
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| EDIT: Not that it makes it any better, but I did say donuts, I meant donut holes. Not full donuts |
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| EDIT EDIT: since I get so many comments about it. No, she's not pregnant, she's had these feelings about this food for **years**. Also I'm not divorcing her ya'll need to chill. |
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| Also, holy shit this blew up",1086,Dipping any donut in ranch is a war crime.,822,ask
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| Which celebrity did you think were born in the U.S. but were surprised that they weren
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| What’s the worst thing to ever exist?,,716,Cancer,675,ask
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| Is she being controlling?,"So my GF is round for a week, I said I was popping out to grab a couple of beers, like I do every Monday. As I grabbed my keys she shouted, ""only get a 4 pack and drink two today and two tomorrow"" I replied with ""that's what I always do but today I'm grabbing 6"" there's a deal on at the local corner shop making it 5p more to get 2 extra beers. Bargin. She snarled back with ""you better not"" I just said ""stop trying to control me in my house, you're a guest"" she said ""not being controlling I'm just saying only get 4"" and I walked out and came back with 12.",778,"You need to have a conversation. Especially if this is the first time something like this has happened. Lay it out there - what you will and won't accept. She has a right to do the same. If those things don't match up it's time to go before things get worse. Right now it's not a big thing but if you just brush it off it'll build until something else happens that is similar and things could escalate. Or you could start doing more things out of spite to get at each other. That's no fun even though it brings a tiny bit of satisfaction in the moment. |
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| Don't have the discussion while drinking.",259,ask
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| Do people really go more than a day without taking a shower?,"Now, I'm not talking about people who can't take a shower for being homeless etc. I'm talking about people who have access to one but still go a few days without a shower. I always take a shower every morning. I just feel hella nasty and greasy when I wake up I need to shower. But I've heard people be like oh I'll take a shower tomorrow. Like what? You really came to school without taking a shower? Maybe I'm just weird and you don't need to shower every day so I'll like to know what others think.",1282,I have dry skin and hair showering every day is not good for either.,742,ask
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| My girlfriend says I have to prove to her why she needs a boyfriend,She told me this a while ago and I’ve tried to up my boyfriend game but more recently she brought it up and said I still haven’t proven anything. How do I?,1669,"You don’t have to prove her anything. Truth is, she doesn’t need you. You don’t need her either. You are both together because you WANT to. Big difference.",1744,ask
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| Redditors: How did you come up with your username?,,1102,It was summer.,689,ask
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| What’s something you want to do before you die?,,857,Nah. I
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| "If you could live in any videogame, what would it be?",,690,Animal Crossing would be super chill. Although maybe boring too.,269,ask
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| Betty White just died. How do you feel?,,1395,I can
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| Uhmm i need help,"So one of my friends who is 13F befriended and got together with an 18M and she has NOT TOLD HIM SHE'S 13. He thinks this girl is fucking 18 as well and i am the one she's asking for advice because she feels guilty now. My friend is saying she really likes him and wants to continue and idk Wtf to do or tell any advice????? |
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| Thanks everyone for the help the guy immediately was not okay with it but they both are still friends AND NOTHING ELSE she deleted the old account and they talk on snap now. Please dont worry i am friends with the guy and nothing illegal is going on anymore",691,"Tell him. If he does anything sexually with her, he can go to jail for fairly serious rape charges. |
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| Ignorance won't save him.",694,ask
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| What word makes you cringe every time you hear it even though it shouldn
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| "What gives you an unbridled, totally unreasonable “holy” rage?","You don’t even need to know why… the more unreasonable the better. |
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| This can be commonly held opinions… |
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| Food… |
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| A public figure… |
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| Beliefs… |
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| Anything. Your visceral reaction can be totally knee jerk and sans logic. |
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| Guidelines: don’t hate or be needlessly spiteful. If you bring religion or politics into this, please keep it light. 😊",1069,"Driving well below the speed limit in the passing lane. They don't need to speed just at least be at the limit, or stay in the other lane.",374,ask
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| What’s something women do that give men the “ick”?,,518,"Sticking stuff in their bras. I remember being a cashier at Walmart, and women would always pull their cards out of their bras, and I’m just like “lady, I don’t want to be handling your tittie sweat.”",689,ask
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| What is the stupidest reason you’ve been banned from a sub?,,1195,For posting in other subreddits...,671,ask
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| "If you could tell your younger self one thing, what would it be?",,1417,learn to somehow enjoy exercise,539,ask
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| "What's something that's deemed ""childish"" that makes you happy?",For me personally it |
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| Edit: thank you all for the awards and all the great comments!",336,ask
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| What sentence are you really sick off?,EXAMPLE: Someone will come eventually.,1305,"”If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best” just… ugh",993,ask
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| "Am I a bad person for wanting a child, but not wanting to go through pregnancy?","Every time I |
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| But what
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| What is the worst physical pain you have ever experienced?,,1199,Passing a Kidney stone!!!,429,ask
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| Waiter says “enjoy your meal”. I respond by saying “you too”. How do I recover?,,788,Give him your meal and leave,339,ask
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| what do I say back when someone says “you don’t get any pussy”.,When people use this insult what do you say back?,672,"“Well, you’re here, so I’ve seen at least 1 today.”",854,ask
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| What
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| Men and women of Reddit: What are your deal breakers in relationships?,,1402,Lying. It is unacceptable in a mature relationship,612,ask
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| What was the
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| "Partner is going to jail for 3 days, what should he tell his work?","Original post: He’ll only be missing 1 day of work, because the other 2 days the business is closed anyway. He would much prefer to be honest, but doesn’t want to change their image of him. He’s a really good dude and has 6 months sober… the jail time is related to a DUI back in July. Any ideas for what to tell them? |
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| Edit to add: He’s a chef at a high end resort, no PTO/sick time/benefits for now unfortunately. |
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| 2nd edit: he won’t be able to text/answer calls for those 3 days (obviously lol), so the head chef or owner can’t get in touch with him over that time either… which they typically do. |
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| 3rd edit/update: so this wasn’t expected to have this many responses… but thanks to those of you who were kind and trying to help! |
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| We were expecting to get a handful of other ideas we maybe haven’t thought of yet, just to have more options if that’s the route he goes. He still has another month until he has to report to jail. |
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| He may be honest with the owner, or he may go with a sick day/family emergency/something like that. Definitely nothing major or Covid-related! |
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| While, yes, the service industry is full of active and recovering alcoholics/addicts; the owner of this place is not from the US. And in his culture drinking is looked down upon, even banned in some places. The owner is very kind and appreciates my guy a lot, so it’s more about not wanting to let him down or change his perception. Sounds immature, perhaps… but I can understand him not wanting the owner to think less of him. It’s not about the other co-workers, head chef, or manager at all… as they understand this is part of the industry. |
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| Anyways, he’s still another month out from having to say anything so we’ll see what happens. Just wanted some more food for thought! Thanks again to most you and those who shared their own experiences ❤️ The support means more than you know.",863,Ya I’d call in for him and say it’s a personal emergency and incredibly private. They don’t need to know anything else,691,ask
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| What
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| "People of Reddit, Do you have an inner-monologue?",,841,"Answer: Yes. I never shut up in my own head. |
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| I remember one time my parents said I was annoying when talking and I replied “And I live with listening to myself in my head. This is not annoying.”",306,ask
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| Is it just me or is there no secondary side dish to go with pizza? I’ve tried it all. Any ideas?,,1791,Caesar salad,882,ask
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| "I’m a disabled model, writer, actress and I’ve been told I’m beautiful inside and out. But I’m not relationship material because I’m in a wheelchair. Been blocked, ghosted as soon as they realise my disability. Would you have a serious relationship with a physically disabled person? Why or why not?",,1131,"I don't think a person being in a wheelchair is the reason not to be with them. Of course, there are several other factors that could come into play here. For example, can you have sex? Have kids? Do you need lots of outside care, or not ect. ect. Different people in wheelchairs are still all different people. Not everyone can handle everything about someone. For some that stuff doesn't matter as much, for others it is a deal breaker right away. If they don't want you as you are you don't need them anyways. I don't believe in fairy tail soul mate shit, but you are much more likely today to find a partner while handicapped than at any point in human history.",484,ask
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| whats an interesting fact about you?,,1103,"Once in India in 2013, I developed a massive hematoma on my left tit, I needed emergency surgery and we were in a very rural area far from a proper hospital without many supplies, so the local clinic doctors got a bunch of nurses to hold me down, cut open my tit and force this dark purple blood out of there, basically surgery when I was awake, fucking horrific. Then they left a drain in my tit I got removed a week later when I got back home, this drain broke apart during the plane landing so I needed another small surgery to remove the drain parts out of my boob.",600,ask
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| what addiction is deeply rooted in our society without most people noticing?,,508,Caffeine and sugar I think both fit this category,605,ask
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| Do you sleep with your bedroom door open or closed? Why?,,842,"Always closed. A firefighter once told me to never sleep with your door open. He said that when responding to house fires, he’d seen many situations where the people who had slept with their doors open has died, while everyone whose doors were closed had survived.",596,ask
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| What is a life experience that you will never have again because of your age or stage in life?,,578,"Summer vacation from school. Oh, and snow days.",450,ask
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| Do you know someone who don’t like nutella?,Wow people really have different tastes I love nutella,545,I don’t like it.,225,ask
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| What is one thing that the world would be better off without?,,855,Neurological diseases,478,ask
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| "You get the choice to spend one hour with anyone, living or dead. Who are you choosing?",Sidenote: You can
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| what is a personal pet peeve of yours when it comes to texting?,"I’d say my personal pet peeve that gives me pure unbridled rage is when people place “...” after what they typed. |
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| “hey...”",512,K,235,ask
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| what is something all 7.8 billion of us can agree on?,,1089,Oxygen is necessary for staying alive.,817,ask
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| Would you give 1 year of your life to give your dog or cat 7 more healthy years?,,638,Can I give more than one? I’m kinda done and my dog seems to enjoy the shit out of living.,297,ask
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| What’s one movie you will never get sick of?,"Edit: I’m looking forward to all the answers of films I haven’t seen. |
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| Second edit: There’s so many movies I forget about that I’d watch everyday! Thanks for all the comments!!",695,Princess Bride,164,ask
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| Is it rude to snap at someone to get their attention,"I snapped at my friend to get her attention and she said it was rude and I was very confused because my whole life people have snapped or said “ch-ch” to get someone’s attention, is it rude? It’s probably different where I’m from.",508,In America it
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| "To the men in this reddit,",What do you think of plus sized woman? Genuine answers only.,527,"I love plus sized women! |
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| But! |
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| The comes a point where it no longer is attractive. For me, it’s when They have difficulty getting into or out of…anything like a chair, or the car, bed etc.",488,ask
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| Has anyone just in the middle of taking a shower had to run out of the shower to take a massive shit getting everything wet including the toilet seat?,"Today I had this happen to me. I had to go poop before I even started my shower but thought I could hold it in until after I was done showering, but by each passing minute inside that shower my stomach started to ache and the poop was forcing itself out of me like some rat trying to dig its way out as it is being suffocated in my butt. Anyway I couldn't hold it anymore and just decided to run out of the shower as I was wet and got on the toilet and let it out with much force like a strong wind knocking away a trampoline.",798,This is the type of question reddit was made for,260,ask
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| Would you consider it wrong for someone to break up with their partner for coming out as trans and/or transitioning?,,593,"I wouldn’t say so. It’s totally cool if someone would wish to transition and listen to their heart. However, you can’t change someone’s sexuality. If your partner is straight, and then you transition to the same gender as them. Even if they love you, you can’t expect them to still be attracted to you if you present differently. |
| I can understand the angers and frustration that may come with that, but it’s you changing up the game, not them. So you’ve either gotta give them time to adjust or let them go :(",557,ask
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| Is it hate speech to point out that biological men have a general physical advantage over women in sports based on stats from most popular sports and Olympic events?,,563,No.,334,ask
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| Does McDonald
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| Would you consider smoking to be an instant turn off?,,1031,To a non smoker.. of course it is,492,ask
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| what’s a food you love that seems disgusting to everyone else?,,501,I love corn in my salads,185,ask
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| How do I compliment a man without him thinking I
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| "I believe Ukraines President Volodymyr Zelenskyy is showing true bravery and leadership during this invasion, however I am genuinly curious, was he doing a good job as president prior to the invasion?",,560,"Answer: He had his ups and downs. In my opinion, Government in a smartphone is a great initiative. It allows you to make many things related to documents via your smartphone and gov websites. Everything started to digitalise before him though but improved in these terms during his term. He is a great speaker also. Seems he has a great team to support him.",240,ask
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| Generally it is said that anything in excess is bad. What in excess is good?,,723,Good health,612,ask
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| "be honest, are you all right?",,613,"Not really, no, but thanks for asking.",316,ask
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| "Do you think high school should have courses where you learn about taxes, insurance (etc)?",,502,"Yes. I remember moving out at 18, knowing that you had to get utilities turned on and how would have been a great help. Car insurance, title and registration fees should be discussed as well. Setting budgets, balancing check book, and IRA and 401 should also be discussed.",61,ask
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| What is the biggest lie or scam that society has accepted?,,588,Things have to be expensive for them to be good.,737,ask
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| What is illegal but morally acceptable?,,811,"Dumpster diving. |
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| At least it's illegal in my country. Yet nobody considers it morally wrong.",568,ask
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| what is your controversial opinion?,,527,"It’s not a bad system that one parent goes out and works and another stays at home with the kids and takes care of the home. I absolutely believe that either role can and should be played by both men and women. |
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| The current system that we’ve got ourselves stuck in, where both parents struggle to balance work with daycare that they pay half their income to, is just completely insane in my opinion.",578,ask
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| What is that one cringy word that you wince every time you hear it?,,586,Any word people teach their kids to call their private parts. Primarily when parents call a females genitals “monkey” or “hoo-ha”.,371,ask
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| What
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| My highschool no longer allows you to go to the toilet during class even if you really need to and ask politely. Is that okay?,,546,"It's unlawful to deny you access to the restroom. What are they going to do? Tackle you? Expel you? No. They won't, because they'll get sued and lose.",365,ask
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| Is it normal to play with your husband’s junk in bed?,"Sometimes when my husband and I are laying in bed, I put my hands down his pants and play with his balls or penis. I do this without any sexual intent, its just fun and feels warm. He doesn’t seem to mind or get weirded out by it and I usually stop if i feel him getting hard.",527,"Yes, but don't rub the lamp if you don't want the genie to come out",729,ask
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| What is the worst female name?,"My brother in law knocked up a stripper and named his daughter Ascella. At first I cringed and thought, “Wait until she gets to high school and the boys say, I can’t wait to run train on her” But someone tagged her on Facebook and the translation button popped up below her name. Apparently Ascella in Italian means “armpit”. My brother in law named his daughter armpit.",771,I worked at a detention center and a kid there was named “Queefa” wtf,278,ask
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| Thoughts on teachers forcing socially anxious kids to speak up in front of the classroom?,"I'm not sure how I feel about it. |
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| I understand the importance of having social skills but I also understand how stressful it can be to be forced to speak up in front of an entire classroom.",569,"I hated it, but I survived it, and I think I’m a better-adjusted adult because I had to do some uncomfortable things.",292,ask
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| Found out a (20M) is dating a (15F). What should I do?,,558,"First, if he doesn’t know she’s 15, tell him. |
| Then, tell her parents.",503,ask
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| What are the worst girl names?,,599,Latrina,356,ask
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| Is there like a “secret police phrase” to say to a cop that pulls you over so you don’t get a ticket?,"Yoooooooo, so this post totally got me out of a ticket last night! I was speeding on the highway on my motorcycle, not insanely fast or anything but speeding nonetheless. I noticed him pacing me almost immediately so I stopped gaining (obviously). Took him on an exit completely off the freeway and in a nice empty/safe driveway. Immediately turned my bike off and made sure my hands were visible. After he asked if I knew why I was being pulled over, I responded “I must’ve been doing something stupid!”. He let out a warm chuckle and asked me for my license and what I was up to. I didn’t have my license on me either and actually only have a permit for motos . My tags are expired, and I wasn’t supposed to be riding past dark (especially on the freeway and that would have been my 2nd offense! I asked him for permission before digging around in my backpack and just kept it light and simple. It was honestly a great example of how things should be all the time",641,I read a book on the subject once and one of the tips (although not foolproof) was that if you can make a cop laugh you stand a better chance.,490,ask
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| My girlfriend panicked when I grabbed her phone. You guys also think it’s over?,"I grabbed her phone to google a recipe when we were about to cook, she started flailing and trying to grab it and I kinda asked jokingly why it was so important she got it right away. |
| She haven’t reacted like this before. |
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| Took her a second and she said it was because of some secret gift ideas, I didn’t really push it further just laughed and said okay pretty much and gave it back. |
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| No holidays, no birthdays coming up. |
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| My question: |
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| So how long do I wait for the secret gift before I ask for the real reason? :) |
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| Edit: Some spelling but probably missed something else",1085,Have you been able to go through her phone before?,373,ask
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| how much money do you have?,,506,"$3, im currently living off food stamps and are homeless, currently couch surfing to try and stay off the streets",517,ask
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| Johnny Depp is suing Amber Heard for $50mil. She
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| "Is it racist to refer to myself, an Irish Mexican, as a greenbean?","My entire family calls ourselves green beans but apparently I’m being extremely racist, based on the opinions of a couple people I recently had this conversation with. What do you think?",1166,No its funny as all hell,795,ask
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| I
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| How can i defend Amber Heard?,"Okay, so, let me explain before yall downvote me; |
| I have an activity in my Law history class, wich is a debate. |
| The theme that the prof. Chose was ""Jhonny Deep vs Amber Heard"", and, sadly, i got put on Amber's side. |
| Do ya'll know where i can find information that favors her or something that i can use, like clips and that sort of thing? Thank u! |
| And sorry Jhonny |
| Edit; Erased a paragraph bc it was dumb |
| Edit 2: We actually won the debate! Thank you so much!",970,"This is secretly Amber Heards lawyer looking for help |
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| *edit: thanks a lot everyone, I never got awards like this before :)",2185,ask
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| How am I supposed to tell my friend that faking to be gay to go to a girl
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| Why are shooters in the US usually labelled |
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| Killing a bunch of people because you |
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| If a killing spree is targeted at people from a certain ethnicity to start a race war for example IS terrorism. |
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| Anders Breivik in Norway for example or any American gunman who only targeted black people.",230,ask
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| Do people from the United States really know nothing about Brazil?,"I
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| "Redditors, How old are you? I have seen people up to 60+ on this app.",,678,57 and yes. I think the oldest i saw was a 72 year old lady.,218,ask
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| what song do you think is the most overplayed?,,611,"The ABCDEFU song, instant radio station change",259,ask
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| Is it okay that my 27 yr old bf texted my 14 yr niece while he was out having drinks?,"My niece sent me a screenshot…. Was this weird? Seeing as he was dm’d her while out and she felt weirded out enough to send it to me. Him: stay off Insta Her: okaay Him: enjoy the rest of your night Her: thanks you too |
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| Edit: thanks for all the opinions. After going with my gut feel and putting my niece first I decided to confront him and he oaths it came from a general place with no hidden agendas he apologized for “parenting” her and understood that was wrong. I made it clear to him that she is obviously uncomfortable being texted by him or being told what to do by him. I encouraged both to unfollow each other and rather speak with me or her mom if there’s any “warnings” that come up going forward. |
| I’m going to be honest and say I never want it to come across as me saying he has pedo vibes cause he doesn’t and he is a genuinely nice guy that’s known my niece since she was 7, they are never left alone when we have family gatherings(not intentionally but I’m just backtracking) and him and I live 7hrs away from my niece and family BUT in this world where I’ve been s/a as a kid and most victims actually know their attacker - I will leave no room for surprises regardless. He seemed incredibly disappointed that I could ever perceive him in this light, which is fair but he is the one that dm’d her and I had to get to the bottom of it so my bad at least he knows he crossed a line. |
| I was conflicted by this because I was once 14 and sometimes got texts from older / guys saying “go to bed” or “log of it’s late” and these convos SOMETIMES had hidden agendas. I don’t know if this is enough cause to break up, should this be innocent then poor guy and I’m just a protective aunt(which I have no shame in and will do it again always) so I’ve decided to take a bit of a break from him and social media because my head is foggy after all of that. Thanks all again",536,"Maybe? Maybe not creepy weird, but definitely unecessary texting weird. It's not uncommon for guys having too many drinks to suddenly have the urge to give life advice to everyone they know, especially younger people. |
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| Maybe his friends were having a conversation about something related to Instagram and he suddenly thought, ""Man Instagram is bad news, I better tell (niece) to watch out!"" because of genuine concern + drunken inability to judge appropriate times to tell people things. |
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| Overall it was weird and unnecessary and he needs to be reminded not to drunk text. And nobody would blame you for raising an eyebrow and keeping an eye on him because, why not? He's just a boyfriend, your niece is family.",421,ask
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| "You can only drink one drink for the rest of your life, and it can't be water. What drink do you choose?",,1256,Very weak lemonade,476,ask
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| Boyfriend let me go to ER alone while I was miscarrying. Dealbreaker?,"He was more worried about work tomorrow than coming with me to the ER. He’s a nurse, and has plenty of PTO and sick leave. |
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| I’m currently miscarrying in an ER bed. |
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| I’m not trying to be manipulative, but I can’t bring myself to answer his phone calls or texts. What do I do? |
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| UPDATE: |
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| It was a complete miscarriage. The ultrasound tech and I watched my baby pass through me on the screen, & then I felt & saw it all over my gown & bed. That part was traumatizing. & messy. I’m passing the rest of the tissue at home. I’m in pain but as of now it seems I’m healing normally. No obvious complications. I feel blessed for that. Thank you everyone for your concern. |
| I need to heal physically & put myself first before I figure out what I’m going to do with my relationship.",1651,"Hey OP - I hope you’re doing well as it’s been a few hours since you posted this. |
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| I agree with a lot of the comments here. I want the contrary opinions to take the miscarriage piece out of it a second. OP is in the hospital at the ER. Hospitals suck. They’re lonely, they’re scary, you’re never there for a *good* reason. |
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| Covid complicated things for some time and my last ER experience in January meant I had to be alone. It sucked. But things have changed and hospitals have been allowing family/SOs back in. |
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| If I had an SO in the ER, I would be there. If I were in the ER, I’d want my SO there. I’ve had more than one colleague call out of work recently because of an incident with their SO. Work was nothing but supportive, because *that’s what you do* when something is going sideways. |
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| Now bring the miscarriage piece back. Not only is OP in the ER, which sucks in general, they’re there because of a potentially traumatic and emotionally-charged medical event. It doesn’t matter if OP’s boyfriend wanted or didn’t want the baby. It just doesn’t. It matters that he provides support for his girlfriend, and he’s not. |
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| Of course we don’t know the tone of the conversation before OP left for the hospital or what he’s saying over text…but I’d be seriously reevaluating the relationship if I were in this situation. |
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| Editing to add: hey u/noonchi_duality, still hoping you’re doing well 12 hours on. If you end up checking Reddit again, want to let us know that you’re ok? You’ve been in my thoughts today.",509,ask
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| Is it weird for an adult to tell you if that if you were older they would have a crush on you?,"Edit: the dude just outed himself as a total weirdo. I wonder what men like that expect me to say to that? Am i supposed to jump up and down from joy that another man in my life is untrustworhy? |
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| Anyway thanks for all the comments",1475,They are testing your boundaries to see how groomable you are. They are actively trying to see how easy it would be to victimize you.,501,ask
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| why are you not dating anyone now?,,588,I
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| "Supreme Court overturns Roe v. Wade 2022, what are your thoughts?",,934,"On it's own, it doesn't make abortion illegal. It allows the states to decide. The question about RVW has always been about whether the Constitution protects the right to an abortion, and legal scholars have been saying for decades that RVW's decision was on *very* shaky legal ground to begin with. There's been an effort in Congress for a long time to try and codify abortion rights with legislation instead of relying on RVW, because this day was going to come sooner or later. |
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| Personally, I don't think the government (federal state, or otherwise) has *any* business telling *anyone* what they can and cannot do medically.",409,ask
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| "People who actually like their jobs, What do you do as a job?",Edit: Sorry if I can |
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| No direct competition, indirect are cyber cafes, bowling and laser quest. |
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| We make pretty good money, we talk about video games pretty much all day. |
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| What do you think is REALLY in the depths of the ocean?,,1016,[The Deep Sea](https://neal.fun/deep-sea/),451,ask
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| "What's the first word that comes to mind when hearing the word ""death""?",,706,Death,434,ask
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| "Your biggest crush for years, who broke your heart and is now married, turns to you and says, “I always wanted you”. What is your response?",,687,"""Bitch stfu""",600,ask
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| What’s a secret you have but you’ll never tell anybody?,,742,"In college I made it possible so the entire dorm building could get HBO and Cinemax for free, despite it being forbidden and expensive.",359,ask
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| If Adam and Eve were the first people on the earth....does that mean we
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| "Americans, are you proud to be an American?",,890,I proud to be an American but I’m ashamed of our government not Democrats or Republican but the way our government is ran from both sides and manipulates people to gain power.,556,ask
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| What makes Ryan Reynolds so attractive to guys? I
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| "Americans, what’s your least favorite thing about being an American?",,1088,"Being compared to all the imbecile Americans, especially those that travel and drag their complete ignorance with them.",762,ask
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| My girlfriend wants me to give her my bank account number and PIN really badly because she found out I was kind of rich. What do I do?,,2378,"You either let yourself be taken advantage of, or you don't.",2335,ask
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| What should I blow my first paycheck on ?,"I (16m) just started working my first job. It’s been about two weeks so I’m going to get my first paycheck any day now and it’s gonna be like about 700$. I wanna just completely blow all of my money. I plan on saving the other paychecks but since this is my first ever job and first ever paycheck, I wanna celebrate and waste it, but I have no clue what to buy. What should I buy ?",576,"Ok so listen. I feel it. HARD. But here’s a good tip. When you do get the first check. And say it is around $700. Put literally just 100 aside for that “just in case I need it” till your next check. Now speaking for that other 6 bills?? Go ham homie. |
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| Edit: you should save more. But if you are wanting blow it for sure. 100 aside. BUT take these other replies to mind. I agree the advice they are giving you is better, just harder when it’s your first first paycheck",557,ask
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| If americans have to pay so much for medical bills then what do their taxes go towards?,"i just saw something on r/mildlyinfuriating and dude had to pay like $900 (after insurance already covered over $1,000) for 4 stitches. |
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| Edit: i am so so sorry. reading these replies made me so sad.",703,"The main government expenditures are: |
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| As a European I am confused as to how the US government can spend $1500000000000 every year on Health and Medicare and yet an insured citizen still can't get stitches without spending hundreds of dollars of their own money...",316,ask
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| What activities should not be done naked?,What activities should not be done naked?,742,Frying Bacon,741,ask
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| What’s a show you think no one remembers?,My show in Kenny the shark,740,The Red Green Show.,182,ask
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| How do you feel about women looking at you in a sexual way?,How do you feel about women looking at you in a sexual way?,638,"They don't |
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| Because I'm a redditor",514,ask
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| what compliments do girls like to get?,I am curious what girls like to hear from guys because i dont know what to compliment girls on.,501,I like getting compliments on skills I am good at.,374,ask
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| Should the United States eliminate the Electoral Collage and award the position to the winner of the popular vote?,It seems the two “hot button” issues of late (abortion and gun control) would be settled non-issues if our last two presidential elections were uncontested via the elimination of the Electoral College process. Even Bush v Gore would have been simply settled. Why do we still depend upon an antiquated thought when we’ve progressed Soooooooooooooo much farther?,1532,"I'm pretty sure it was designed with a multi-party system designed. In the early days, people cared WAY more about their state than the country as a whole so instead of 2 parties, each state basically had their guy nominated for president. The electoral college was suppossed to stop large states like Virginia from always choosing the president just because they had the most people. |
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| It's wasn't until we went to 2 parties that it's started to kinda break on us. While eliminating the electoral college may seem like a good idea now, it may not be if we ever evolve beyond the 2 party system like some people want. If our idealogies split enough that every state started nominating their own person it stops California from choosing our president every four years. |
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| So even if it's kinda broken now, I'd prefer it be fixed and improved rather than destroyed just as a backup system in-case the country gets weird.",133,ask
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| "What did Trump accomplish while President, and what caused his popularity to remain as high as it is?","Not trying to start a political fight, I just don't see a list of what he actually did in office. Even a one term President had to accomplish something, correct?",1634,"I'm surprised so many people are being civil in discussion here lol. It is hard to find information that is not biased, so nice to see also people giving information instead of opinion.",582,ask
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| What’s a very minor task that feels unbearable?,What’s a very minor task that feels unbearable?,972,Putting sheets and pillow cases on the bed when you just want to go to bed.,901,ask
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| "Be honest, how are you today?",I just wanna know how you
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| What happened to being free in the United States?,As a kid all I read about and heard that America is free but as a adult i feel lied to about it we are not free I don’t think we ever where.,996,"It really depends on what your expectation of what being free is. |
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| Some think they should be allowed to do whatever they want with out regard to how it affects society. |
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| Some expect their freedom is all about how they want others to behave and believe. |
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| Some people see any rule of law as an attack on their freedom! |
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| Most, I believe -but I could be wrong- believe that they should be free to do whatever they want as long as it does not harm others. That’s my belief, anyway. |
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| In that regard we have work to do but we’ll get there. I hope.",203,ask
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| what is a secret youre taking to grave?,??,1467,"My dad and I really like to go gem mining together, the kind where you shovel and pan your own dirt from a local source to try and find native sapphires and rubies. |
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| On one of our early trips, we just had only found tiny, tiny stones nothing of consequence. And though we are both big on ""journey before destination"" and we are just there to spend time together so the rocks are only bonus, I could tell he was starting to get seriously bummed. After all, it can be hard work! |
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| So I secretly bought one of the ""salted bucked"" from the people there which means it guarantees at least one rock of of >10 carats. I mixed it in with our own stuff without him knowing. We got a 23 carat sapphire! It just really made his day. He still talks about it! |
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| Anyway, I'll never take the joy of that day away from him, and I'm just so happy I was able to give us that memory.",962,ask
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| Should I tell my aunt I found porn on my ten year old cousins iPad? Or is it none of my business?,Genuinely don’t know the right thing to do.,627,I’d recommend it. I was watching porn when I was ten and I’m fucked up lol.,618,ask
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| "You have 24 hours inside of Donald Trump's body, retaining your own mind, and only you know. What do you do?","Are you going to save the world, or burn it all down, or just go golfing, or eat a cheeseburger, or throw the cheeseburger against the wall, or take Eric to Target for some Pokémon cards, maybe visit the Dalai Lama, plan your big comeback... what will you do? |
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| Addendum: When the 24 hours expire, your mind returns to your own body. If Trump's body dies within that precise 24 hour period while you have control, your mind expires and your body is left a vegetable.",1200,Wire all his money in my bank acc for when I’m back in my body.,270,ask
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| Why don’t we use castration as a punishment for Rapists?,"(Especially the notorious ones, like an actual Serial Rapist?)",689,"1: I think it's against like... several ammendments, unfortunately. |
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| 2: Rapists w/ vaginas are also a thing. But I guess you could always figure out some equivalent as well. |
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| 3: I know it's rare as hell but I'm sure there's at least ONE falsely accused r*pist in jail right now who probably doesn't deserve it. |
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| I like the idea, but it doesn't seem practical.",598,ask
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| "had a baby aweek ago, what do you thing about the name Magnus?","Had my son a week ago and we can decide one a name |
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| We want to call him MAGNUS but my mother seems to think it's a horrible name and says he will get bullied. |
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| Is it a bad name like what do people think about it |
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| I've always like uncommon names and have never come across anyone called magnus apart from the strong man magnus magnusson",582,"Magnus Carlsen. World chess champion. Strong nordic name. |
| Pretty cool, if you ask me.",344,ask
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| "You are locked in a room with a computer with Internet access. You have 24 hours to earn 1000 bucks, otherwise you will be killed. Your actions?",???,1376,"""Dear Mom, I need to borrow $1,000 or I will be killed"" |
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| "I’m eligible for a make a wish, what should I do with it?","I’m 16 years old and I just finished my chemotherapy treatment, my social worker told me today that I was eligible for a make a wish. Of course I said yes and my mom signed the papers. If I get accepted it will take a while to get things all worked out to get my wish. But I have no clue on what I want any ideas?",782,"I would definitely go for an experience. Travel, see something you’ve always wanted to see, try something you’ve never tried, etc. I know someone who takes her kid traveling for his birthday, no birthday presents, except the trip. Experiences are worth way more than material things, in my opinion. But it is ultimately up to you! Wishing you all the best!",252,ask
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| Why is sex such a big deal?,"I'm a female in my early 20's and I love my boyfriend but I just don't care about sex. I have no desire to get sweaty and smash. We have a 1 year old so obviously we've done it but I've grown to feel annoyed at the thought of sex- physically doing it, seeing it on TV, hearing songs about it- everything. It just seems like such a waste of time to take clothes off and not get anything out of it but the need to shower again. What's wrong with me?",4604,Have you never had an orgasm?,1277,ask
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| neighbour is yelling and i don’t know what to do?,so i (f18) live in an apartment and has a neighbour that is constantly yelling “F*CK” “ F*CK OFF” “F*CK” at the top of his lungs at random times but mostly at night and sometimes in the crack of dawn. and since living beside him i’m pretty sure he isn’t actually yelling to a person. it’s disturbing and because i’m in the room next beside his apartment - i hear all of it and so loudly… idk how i should feel or what i should do?,1035,"My first thought was that he might have Tourette's Syndrome. But it could be something more serious, like being a gamer.",1278,ask
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| What do you consider to be the worst genre of music?,"Also, please explain why.",560,"All of it, except what I like",482,ask
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| Why do White people have different hair colors and eyes colors?,"In most of the world. Most people have the same hair color and eye color. With it being nearly 100 percent Dark Brown or Black hair and Brown Eyes in many places. Yet white people can have black,blond,red,and Brown hair and have blue,green,brown,and hazel,etc. Why is this the case?",655,Genetic adaptation to less direct sunlight.,766,ask
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| [SERIOUS] how can people read the bible and still believe that it happened?,I would rather not debate on just want to know,609,"Answer: Many people read the Bible & believe, while also viewing many of the stories allegorically. I’m one of them lol. One example, I personally don’t believe there was actually an Adam and Eve. Many people at my church don’t. I do believe that in the beginning of time, God meant for everything to be perfect. But then -something- happened, and it wasn’t perfect anymore. What? Who knows. Maybe an apple, maybe not. Lots of people (also me) read the Bible with faith, and also take into account the “human” element—it’s God’s Word written down by humans… so of course there’s bias, social context, exaggeration—all things humans are great at. But I don’t really need answers for all of that, I just need faith. And with that, I can also acknowledge how the Bible is used for liberation and oppression, and I can choose how I use it in my life & also grieve & feel anger toward how others use the Bible in their lives. That’s more a scholarly approach. Thinking about these things doesn’t change or devalue my faith, it’s just how I believe. Most Christians I’m friends with share this mindset. |
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| Some people I know who do believe literally, have said doing so brings them comfort. I’m not referring to people who were raised in messed up churches or brainwashed. That’s horrible & a different story. I mean like averagely living people who choose to believe literally because they simple choose to believe that way. It’s not blind faith, it’s more like pure faith? If that makes sense. |
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| There’s also a super common third option, which is people who believe the Bible is the literal Word of God—end here. So not necessarily that all the stories are true, but that everything in the Bible is exactly written the way God wants it to be. It’s His Word, no debate. That’s sort of a middle ground, because they don’t think there’s a human element, but they also don’t necessarily think Moses actually parted the Red Sea. They just think God wants us to read that he did. |
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| Not sure if that’s clear so feel free to ask any follow up questions. I know it may not make sense to you & that’s completely okay!!! I question things in the Bible all the time. So does my Pastors, so do our Elders. It’s normal & encouraged. Glad you’re asking questions",210,ask
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| What does 🗿mean? The only answers I’ve gotten are “🗿🗿🗿”,?,1018,"The meaning of 🗿🗿🗿 is that it is meaningless. It is difficult to think of an actual use for the Moai 🗿 emoji, unless you are taking a vacation to Easter Island. |
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| Because it's so meaningless the internet adopted it as an answer or response for basically everything, essentially turning any response into a non-answer.",377,ask
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| Is America really as bad as it looks it the media? (to europeans),"Drug abuse, overdose deaths, mental health epidemic, fanatical christians, student loan crisis, debt crisis, housing crisis, unnafordable healtcare, crumbling infrastructure, illegal imigration, unrestrained capitalism, legalized corruption through donations, poverty, homelessness, out of touch billionaires, school mass shootings, racism, rampant consumerism, natural destruction, fighting wars all over the world, political polarization, artificial food and fast food, obesity, GMOs, teen pregnancies, gated communities, fake news, biased media, imperialism, wealth inequality... etc",12159,"It 100% depends on where you live and how much money you have. |
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| If you're moderately well-off and live in a decent area, you're financially above many problems and don't see them on a daily basis besides in the news. The worst you'll see is some homeless people at intersections asking for money, or if you're really unlucky get caught in a mass shooting. |
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| If you're above that level, you almost never have to see the problems. You may as well live in a different country with how different your life is. |
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| If you're below that level, you experience more and more of the problems the further down you go, with the people at the bottom getting crushed the hardest by all of it.",888,ask
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| How do i gain weight? /serious,"I am a female who’s been underweight her whole life. Since I started my ed recovery last year i’ve been trying to put on some weight, but i can never get past 45 kilograms. I am short, about 1,60 meters. I am very self counscious about my weight and the way my body looks like, i literally look like a child. I managed one time to get to 47-48 kg when i was going to the gym and eating a lot of food, but now i lost all the progress. My goal is to reach at least 50 kg, but i would like to get around 55 someday. Please help:)",535,Take a six months vacation to Italy,277,ask
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| Why dont Redditors use emoji here?,I don
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| Have guns actually ever stopped a mass shooting?,"I’m English so don’t massively get America and guns. But they always seem to say, if only everyone had a gun they could have killed the mass shooter. But I thought they already all had guns so shouldn’t some random guy have pulled out his glock and killed the mass shooter by now?",628,"In my city just a few years ago a man entered a restaurant and started shooting people, two different people were able to shoot the shooter with their own firearms. The shooter was killed, none of people he shot died. |
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| Also this year near Memorial Day weekend a shooter pulled a gun at a festival in our state, he fire off several shots into the crowd. Another festival attendee was carrying which is legal in our state, the shooter was shot and killed. I believe there was only one or two minor injuries from the shooter firing into the crowd.",336,ask
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| "Is it ok to go up to a woman who you think is cute, tell her she’s cute and give her your number on a piece of paper?","Then just go your merry way, I heard about this on a YouTube video btw.",904,Yes tbh I’d prefer this instead of being put on the spot with “can I get your number?” I feel too nervous to say no,448,ask
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| "If you have the microphone to say 3 words to all the people in the planet, what’s your 3?",Let us hear u,933,Execute Order 66,353,ask
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| "Not to sound sexist,but why is it that in most situations, male victims who have suffered from r*pe taken more lightly or not recognized at all?","Like, being r*ped a very serious matter, and you can’t just dismiss it because of someones gender. |
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| Edit: changed “r word” to r*ped to clear up confusion or smthing idk",1007,"In my home state a man legally cannot be raped, only sexually assaulted. They define rape as non consensual entering of the vagina by a penis or fingers. Since men don’t have a vagina to be unconsentually entered, legally speaking rape doesn’t happen to men. Even though that’s clearly bullshit and very rarely upheld in court (following the spirit of the law)",397,ask
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| whats a song literally everyone knows?,???,896,Happy Birthday,809,ask
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| What products are unethical to buy?,when buying which products do we know that we are not doing well?,641,Nestle products,637,ask
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| "What feels wrong everytime, but you still do it again?","What feels wrong everytime, but you still do it again?",775,"Staying up late at night |
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| I knowww it will mess up my sleep cycle (as if it isn't already) and ruin the next day but I still can't sleep early |
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| "How do cops that like listening to rap feel like when they hear ""F*** the police"" or ""F*** 12"" and stuff like that?",A lot of rap includes lyrics like that. And cops that like rap and hear that do they feel bad and maybe stop liking the artist?,855,The average cop understands the hate for police. Most good cops know that bad cops gave given the badge a dishonor . They
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| Why are there so many hateful users on Reddit? I don’t even post anymore The negativity is rampant.,"It’s really difficult to post anything on Reddit without getting at least one “hate comment”. I don’t even post anymore because of it. |
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| You are in a fight with like 10 bears. What do you do?,"This is purely hypothetical. I am absolutely not in a fight with like 10 bears. You do not need to worry. That being said, please help me quickly",1088,*plot twist* They
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| How did people buy plane tickets before the internet?,Dumb question I know. I have trip coming up and the process of planning sparked this thought. Did people go to the air port the day of travel and buy the ticket on the spot?,561,"Travel agent, mostly.",434,ask
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| Is it a red flag if a guy doesn’t have a bed frame?,"i feel like there’s no point in the frame, i was lazy to not put it on, i have a queen bed and i sleep well without the frame. thoughts?",798,"Most people will make either one of two assumptions about this: |
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| Either you're broke or you're a slob.",507,ask
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| "Men , When you hug us, can you feel our boobs touching your chest?","Men , When you hug us, can you feel our boobs touching your chest?",752,"Yes, every part of your body that is touching mine I can feel. But that doesn't mean I'm going to reject a hug from my Grandma.",770,ask
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| Did the FBI investigate the whole Hilary’s emails thing?,Seeing a lot of conservatives complaining that they didn’t go as hard on her as they are on Trump.,758,"They did Investigate her. And James Comey's ill-timed and vague announcement about it probably cost her the election. |
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| The right had been driving up negative perceptions of Hillary for decades and it really went into high gear when they realized Democrats had her waiting in the wings for the end of Pres Obama 8yrs. Steve Bannon admits this in the newly leaked [audio](https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2022/08/full-transcript-of-leaked-steve-bannon-tape-donald-trump-2020-election/). The Comey Statement was one in a series of many, but it felt at the time like an inappropriately timed highly prejudicial statement to make about a candidate that close to an election",349,ask
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| Am I young enough to turn life around at 30 after a brutal meth addiction?,Am I young enough? How long does it take for my brain to recover? Will it make a big difference once my brain works right?,659,"I got clean at 35. Still here 31 years later. |
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| I'm not special. Anyone can get better. Just have to do the work.",385,ask
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| How would you feel if your son said women should not be allowed to hold positions of power because they are too emotional and irrational?,How would you feel if your son said women should not be allowed to hold positions of power because they are too emotional and irrational?,542,"I’d say ‘Son, that is emotional and irrational thinking.’",437,ask
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| Is it bad that my date and I split the bill?,"I (20 y/o female) went on a 1st date with my ""friend"" (21 y/o male) recently. We split the bill for dinner. He did however pay for our desserts later that night and credits for an arcade. |
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| My parents asked if he paid, and was shocked that I didn't ask him to do so. I said it didn't bother me, but they said that he has to try and sway me... |
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| I personally wasn't offended that he didn't offer to pay for dinner, but my parents and others (who they told) hate it.",1177,No it’s not bad at all. Splitting a bill is fine. And then he paid for other things later. Men should not be expected to pay.,801,ask
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| What would you name the current chapter of your life?,Which chapter is it?,580,“The dark years” it’ll get better though,186,ask
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| What to do if you fall in love with someone else if you are already married?,"Sometimes it happens that people fall in love with other people when they are married. They don't want to betray their partners, but can't do anything with their feelings.",624,"Understand that the initial feelings of falling in love are temporary. Those feelings are limerence and are dopamine combined with hormones, they’ll pass once a relationship settles into ordinary life. People have to set strong boundaries the moment that they recognize they are having feelings for someone, no contact whatsoever. If their marriage is failing, they need to address that before going into a new relationship.",716,ask
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| what is the worst answer to I like my coffee like I like my women?,Try to make me laugh,578,Mine is shipped from overseas,666,ask
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| owning what things is unethical?,is there any thing to own what is unethical,503,People.,716,ask
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| why is spending $300 billion on student loan forgiveness a priority for our country right now?,Seems random af,813,"I mean, this is what Biden ran on. Right? $10k debt forgiveness for student loan borrowers. |
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| If you’re asking “Why now?” It times up perfectly with mid term elections, and they may be setting us up to not prolong the payment pause past Jan 2023.",908,ask
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| Without saying the name. What country are you from?,"I’ll start. Tea and crumpets, bit to easy.",785,"Ill make it easy: |
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| "What is a food that people around you love, but you hate?","For me, its all melons, black beans, cabbage and raw fish just to name a few...",549,Peas. God damn balls of hell,118,ask
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| Is there a way to be bisexual without being in the lgbtq community?,I really don
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| Simple question: is 29m and 20f too much of an age gap?,"That’s all. |
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| Update: thanks for the karma, she isn’t interested",1250,"The age gap isn’t an issue, the age at which there is a gap, is.",1406,ask
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| *Serious* Why do vegans/vegetations make their food look as realistically as possible to meat?,Just curious because it |
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| Why Can’t People On Reddit Name Their Own Fucking Pets?,Just curious.,1522,Dude do you really want fewer pet pictures on the internet?,180,ask
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| Why is requiring ID voter suppression?,I hear this argument often about how requiring an ID at voter booth is suppressing black people and other minorities,1658,"Not every state has the option to get an ID that is usable for voting without minimum getting a drivers license. Requiring a drivers license to vote means that if you dont have/need a car, you have to go through the process to get one. Which involves fees (which would be considered a poll tax since it is required to vote) and often times you must supply a vehicle to take the test. |
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| You *could* have a voter ID law that isn't voter suppression if you supplied all citizens with an ID for free that was usable for voting, with maybe a cheap replacement cost should it get lost. Having there be any cost mandatory to get an ID that you are REQUIRED to have in order to vote means that anyone who cant afford the cost simply loses that right, hence suppressing votes. If you want it to not supress votes, it needs to be free and easy to get an ID.",543,ask
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| Why do people go by they/him or they/her?,"I thought the point if they/them or other gender neutral pronouns was to be gender neutral, why then do people split it with him or her? Is it just because why not, or is there a real reason?",815,I think people should use thy/thou more often,627,ask
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| What exactly did Joe Biden say last night?,"It seems many people in the right are even more furious with him than usual and are comparing his red background to Palpatine. |
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| Edit: Thanks everyone, you've destroyed what's left of my sanity. I'm going to go cry in a bathtub now. |
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| Edit: This post has gotten a couple of awards, and I'm pretty sure it's about to get a new one, the 🔒award",3040,"Read for yourself. Make your own decision. [Transcript](https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/speeches-remarks/2022/09/01/remarks-by-president-bidenon-the-continued-battle-for-the-soul-of-the-nation/) |
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| > But as I stand here tonight, equality and democracy are under assault. We do ourselves no favor to pretend otherwise. |
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| > Donald Trump and the MAGA Republicans represent an extremism that threatens the very foundations of our republic./ |
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| Now, I want to be very clear — (applause) — very clear up front: Not every Republican, not even the majority of Republicans, are MAGA Republicans. Not every Republican embraces their extreme ideology…./ |
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| But there is no question that the Republican Party today is dominated, driven, and intimidated by Donald Trump and the MAGA Republicans, and that is a threat to this country. |
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| > And here, in my view, is what is true: MAGA Republicans do not respect the Constitution. They do not believe in the rule of law. They do not recognize the will of the people. |
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| > They look at the mob that stormed the United States Capitol on January 6th — brutally attacking law enforcement — not as insurrectionists who placed a dagger to the throat of our democracy, but they look at them as patriots. |
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| > And yet history tells us that blind loyalty to a single leader and a willingness to engage in political violence is fatal to democracy. |
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| > So I want to say this plain and simple: There is no place for political violence in America. Period. None. Ever. |
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| > Democracy cannot survive when one side believes there are only two outcomes to an election: either they win or they were cheated. And that’s where MAGA Republicans are today.",1213,ask
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| A genie offers you unlimited wishes instead of the usual three what is your first wish ?, What if you had discovered a genie and he gave you unlimited wishes what would your very first wish be and why ?,708,I wish they would act in good faith for all wishes and not try to fuck me over and also warn me of potential consequences for each wish I make,782,ask
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| people who play their music outloud in public and choose not to use headphones. why???,?????,1799,"Nobody who does this ever actually answers these, unfortunately.",458,ask
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| Who do you think is the most famous ALIVE person in the world?,Key word is alive.,1417,"Santa, obviously. |
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| What is something that gets less attractive as you get older?,"Drinking and drug use for me. |
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| I'm not against them, but if you're 30+ and still drinking/partying like we're still in college it's very unattractive to me.",690,Hawaiian punch. Stopped drinking it when I was 12 i think. The amount you would have to pay me to drink a warm glass of that poison gets higher every day.,186,ask
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| Do I tell my boyfriend his best friend made a move on me?,"And if so, how do I tell him without ruining their friendship?",3981,"Yes, don't worry about his friendship, if his BEST friend made a move on you then he ain't really a friend",2143,ask
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| Is walking in a towel scandalous?,"So the other day, after I took a shower, I had to get out of the room because I couldn't breathe. I have asthma, so I needed air right then. As I went to my room to catch my breath, one of the people I live with yelled, ""you can't be walking through the house in a towel!"" A couple hours later everyone has a discussion and repeatedly insulted me, while saying, ""They don't deserve to see that."" Everything was covered, and the towel doesn't hug me.",974,"It could be weird if there's guests over or if you're just walking around all through the house for an extended period of time, but wearing a towel as you go from the shower back to your room is extremely normal. Occasionally seeing a housemate in a towel is something anyone should expect when living with others.",522,ask
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| Do you find yourself attractive?,"For myself, yes in some ways but not in others. I’m a fan of my face but not of my body.",2933,"I'm not my own type. I am someone's type, but not my own.",502,ask
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| What’s the deal with calling women “females?”,"I’ve noticed an up tic in that lately and to me it’s weird and sounds overly clinical, but I see women being referred to as “females” way more than I see men being referred to as “males.” What do y’all think the reason for this is? |
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| Edit: man, the answers here are divideddd |
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| Edit 2: Ok so I tried to read every comment but there’s way more than I expected and I’ll just detail the more common answers below. |
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| Overall, I see the most common answer has to do with “female” specifically being used to dehumanize people or with an otherwise negative connotation, such as implying that women are “other.” I assume this comes from trend of incels, pick up artists etc. finding different words to avoid the word “woman.” |
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| I also see comments, Seemingly from mostly men, and a few women, answering to the effect of seeing no problem with it, that’s how they grew up, it’s a neutral term, women refers to gender and female, etc. This implies that a lot of people aren’t specifically trying to use the term more often or trying to express any specific opinion on women by using it. |
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| Comments show that some people think that “female” is used to leave out trans women and/or the definition of “woman” is no longer identifiable. Which raises the question, why don’t we see a lot of that on the other side? Is “Man” still definable in that case? Why do we generally only see this argument attributed to “Female?” |
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| Im trying not to put my opinion on things because I only really want to hear what you all think. Very interesting responses!",1565,You ever read or say a word so much that it stops sounding like that word? It just becomes weird mouth noises? That
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| Why do men avoid eye contact?,Been wondering why guys I know like me won’t look at me,1121,In case you fall in love with me and embarrass yourself,837,ask
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| "Why is Reddit so edgy, anti-religious and pessimistic/nihilistic?","Why is Reddit so edgy, anti-religious and pessimistic/nihilistic?",598,Join different sub reddits. It worked for me.,308,ask
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| In the long run, history will judge her based on the entirety of her life, eventually. We
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| "my mom has been gone for 10 hours, what do I do?","15f, my mom is usually out all the time, but she said at 6 she'd be home in a few hours, but it is currently 4:46am. If she's not home we will be stuck with a 2 year old . She's making me really upset |
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| Another edit- she said she got stuck in a storm but it wasn't even raining hard? Ig the issue is resolved though. I got of a video call with her and she told me not to tell my dad she was gone. |
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| Thank you guys. She not back yet but she said she will be, but if this happens again I'll be calling the police and I will tell her she needs mental help",2570,"As a former ""kid in almost this exact situation"" I wanna encourage you to tell somebody if this happens again. Your dad, an older relative, even a teacher or the police. |
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| Abandonment is still illegal even if she says she will be back. My mom used to come back every couple weeks but that didn't make her a good mom. |
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| Don't let her parentify you either. That's your sibling not your child to raise.",801,ask
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| 19 years old w a bedtime?,"I’m 19 years old. Currently working 40 hours a week and preparing to go to college. I still live my parents atm and it’s hell. My phone and computer shuts off at 10 every night and I have to go to bed. I still get grounded…I have curfew. It does not matter to them that I am an adult, a man. All they know is that it’s their roof I live under which is understandable but should I not be treated differently than my younger siblings??",4970,"Well, you should be treated like an adult, but it looks like the only way is to live separately",1245,ask
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| Do you believe that a cure for cancer has already been discovered?,"If not, do you believe that a cure will ever be discovered?",655,"Cancer is not one disease. It's thousands of diseases. Some types already have an effective cure, and I suspect advancements will continue to be made.",551,ask
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| Do you still wear a mask? Why or why not?,I’m curious to what everyone’s response is.,1564,I do when I am sick.,858,ask
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| The world truly seemed a little darker the day after.",2320,Robin Williams. He is missed.,414,ask
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| What do you think is the least racist country?,"Or in other words, which is the most tolerant and progressive when it comes to racial issues?",1408,Antarctica,1047,ask
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| "Men of Reddit, what was the saddest thing a woman said to you?",Sorry if the question has already been asked,1880,"""I wish I
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| How old is “too old” to Trick or Treat?,"I knew people in College who would trick or treat. I also dated a guy that was 23 and would still dress up and go trick or treating with his friend, he had a younger sister to justify it.",850,"I don't care how old you are. If you come to my house and say ""trick-or-treat"" I'll give you candy.",811,ask
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| "I have a crush on my tattoo artist, should I ask them out?","Okay so I (20F) got a tattoo and went to a new place, and I have got a big fat crush on the person who did it. I want to ask them out but I know it seems a little inappropriate. But I also know being in their position they can’t ask me first. |
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| I have a plan to maybe slip my number in the money envelope next time I go because there’s no way I have enough courage to ask them directly. |
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| So after talking with them I’ve learned they are in a happy relationship so thanks everyone for your advice. I won’t be asking them out and my crush (after finding out) is already fizzling out",1673,"I'd say try and do it separate from business relations. Like wait till you have fully paid for your tattoo, and then one day just stop into the shop when they are working and leave them a note. I'd say that's the best way.",1235,ask
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| "when meeting a new person, why do some people think it's okay to act different based on gender?","I (F) hung out with a new group of people, but when I'd try to shake a man's hand while introducing myself they'd say ""I don't shake a woman's hand"" then go in for a hug. Also, growing up id always have older women hug me when first meeting. Why do they think it's okay to just hug a person right after meeting them?",1159,That’s kinda weird as a guy I never initiated a hug was a girl unless I was close enough with them. Even then I’m never the one to break boundaries. When I met a girl I’ll get her a handshake unless she wants something,455,ask
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| Did I do something wrong?(Girl Help),"I (18M) had met a (18F) in college. We would text + FaceTime everyday since we had met. She invited me to her dorm and we watched movies, cuddled, made out, etc. If that wasn’t clear enough she even told me she liked me. Anyways, last Thursday things started to get dry between us. We wouldn’t text until Sunday where i’d send a message to check up on her and she’d just leave me on read three different times. We still haven’t talked since last Thursday(it’s been like 6 days) and I’m not sure what I did wrong, she still views my stuff when i post on instagram.",588,"my friends say i should just leave her be. |
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| Did I do something Wrong? Or am I worried for no reason? |
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| Edit: I did text her asking if she was okay, that’s when she left me on read last sunday. |
| Edit2: Also i know she gave me the green light to fuck i really just wasn’t trying to escalate it that much. my fault ig.",187,ask
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| Why do IPhone users hate Androids?,"Androids are not bad nor are iphones, but everywhere I go, wether it's online or offline, I always see iPhone user looking down at androids like there dirt. |
| Like what's the give, I don't understand why Androids are so hated. I've used both phones and both are good. Can someone explain to me please.",1198,"As an iPhone user, my suggestion would be to ignore the fanboi ""noise"" from either user groups. It's a f'ing phone...not a religion. We're lucky to have such great choices.",977,ask
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| Is my boyfriend cheating?,"Found a bunch of texts to hookers on my boyfriends watch. He claims someone is using his phone number and texting people. If that is the case would these texts still show up on his device? |
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| Aight follow up time because I’m torn. I confronted him and his response seemed sincere. We opened security cases with Apple and the phone provider. We even involved families. Full consent to STD tests, parental control (from his family) on devices, and an extensive comb through of all bank statements and call logs. A new number has been obtained. Current theory is this is an elaborate spam that started when his phone was stolen Years ago and the SIM was replicated. This was brought up before but both the phone carrier and family suggested to ignore the spam. |
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| Additional clarifications, I don’t check his phone/ messages and I’m an engineer. I have always had phone and location access and nothing has ever seemed off. The relationship was hiccup free and on track for marriage in the near future. And yes I’m seeking Reddit validation because I’m human. I want to believe him but I don’t want to be made a fool. What do you say Reddit? |
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| I know they’re hookers because hotels and rates were mentioned. Also all this started because there was a supposed text from the ‘mafia’ saying they have his information and needs to pay $3k or bad things will happen( they sent pictures of those bad things).",528,Oh I can explain this. Don
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| Does anyone know of a subreddit where you have to look for the queen bee in a mix of worker bees?,"I found it a while ago, but I can’t find it anywhere and I don’t know the name of it",649,r/QueenSpotting,220,ask
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| Is it racist to want to have kids the same race/ethnicity as you?,"If that is true feel free to explain why. This is not me personally, just an argument I found online.",708,"If you had two kids, one of your race and one of a different race and you treated the one of your race much better - then you are racist.",635,ask
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| "If we (women) have the right to choose to keep the fetus or not, should the father have the choice to be financially responsible if we decide to keep it?"," If 2 adults engage in consensual sex, why do only we the women have the right to get rid of it or not? If we want to keep it and the father doesn't, should he be allowed to release any liability?",914,"I have been thinking about it for quite some time, and my opinion is that men should have that right, but only within the same timeframe that women have to get a safe abortion |
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| What is a guy-secret that women do not know about?,Anything that comes into your mind,1565,How much your hobby ACTUALLY costs.,1122,ask
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| You are given the task of ruining a first date in 4 words. What do you say?,?,1032,"So, what are we?",619,ask
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| What stereotype do you find most annoying or offensive?,I hate that women are stereotyped as bad drivers.,1422,That if you are not the stereotype of your race then you are trying to act like another race,713,ask
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| Do you think the Average American can run a mile without stopping?,"Also, how fast do you think they could run a mile? |
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| 1. I'm American myself. The reason I asked is because I run regularly and many people are surprised by it. I'll usually run about 2 miles to work a few days a week and a few times recreationally thought out the week. Basically about 3-5 times a week. When I tell people this, they act like I told them I run a marathon every day. I figure most people can probably run at least one mile without stopping, so I asked the question. |
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| 2. In my mind, the average American is anywhere from 20-45 years old and 150-250 lbs (140-200 lbs for women). |
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| 3. By run, I don't mean full-on sprint. I would say at least a light jog would be fine. Basically anything faster than walking where both feet leave the ground for a moment. |
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| 4. Based of the comments, I've greatly overestimated Americans athletic abilities. |
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| 5. I didn't ask this question to shit on Americans. I actually asked because I believe that the average American CAN run a mile without stopping. I want to see what the average mile pace for the average American was, but I guess that irrelevant now. I understand that there's a stereotype that Americans are fat and lazy, but there's no way Americans are so fat and lazy that the average couldn't run one mile (or at least that's what I thought). |
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| 6. It doesn't have to be a fast mile. You could even jog the distance as long as you don't stop. I wanted to see if the average American has the ability to do it. |
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| 7. Do people even read this?",1527,The average American can not run a mile. However the average person can easily train to be able to run a mile. ( I’m a Heath / Physical Education teacher and a personal trainer).,681,ask
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| my(30m) sister(38f) tells me 30 is to old to turn my life around after a brutal meth addiction. I
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| Who is the most evil person to live other than Hitler?,We all hear about the Holocaust and Nazis but who was more wicked than him or on the same level?,1480,"Pol Pot , leader of Khmer Rogue - killed around 1.5 to 3 million people.",1220,ask
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| My boss propably have feelings for me. What should I do?,"I (17M) work as a part-time worker in a supermarket. And our accountant (20?F) started somehow showing affection to me. I'm no expert on girls, but sometimes it's just too much. Sometimes she just hugs me from behind, hangs her head on my shoulder, invites me for coffee, smokes with me on the ramp, she tells me several times that she likes me and not only in front of me but also in front of my coworkers. This is simply not the relationship a supervisor should have with a part-time employee. And I honestly don't know how to react to all this. What should i do? |
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| Edit: she is not very good looking, at least for me And she is not exactly 20yo. I dunno somewhere between 20~29.",618,Kindly tell her to stop doing that if it makes you uncomfortable and if she keeps doing I go right to your manager immediately and have them talk to her,401,ask
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| Is men approaching women in public even a thing?,I rarely i hear that this happens. so i wondered if this is something people really do? Or is this something that only happens in movies?,883,I was leaving work once when it was raining and i noticed a woman in business attire without an umbrella. I walked over and shared my umbrella with her and walked her to where she was going. She asked for my number and we dated for a short time and have remained friends. So yes it happens but my intention wasn’t to try and date her initially i just thought that if i was in her position i would have hated to get soaked.,594,ask
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| What do i do when my parents find out I’ve possibly gotten my gf pregnant?,For context we’re both teenagers.,902,"First, confirm. Do nothing until you know with 100% certainty if she is pregnant.",678,ask
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| Who is considered a good person but definetly not?,Who is considered a good person but definetly not?,808,"**Keanu Reeves** |
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| "What does it mean when a drunk friend asks to ""take a turn with"" your significant other?","For context, I've known this person since primary school.",564,Your buddy wants to bang your girlfriend/boyfriend.,979,ask
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| Why do our Belly buttons Smell so bad?,?,1032,Why do u smell it,412,ask
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| Why do car people love manual transmissions so much?,In my opinion driving a manual just adds more work to driving and it seems like it would be a pain. Are there major benefits to it or do people just enjoy a more hands on driving technique?,1171,"More engaging driving experience.. and in terms of racing they used to be faster.(also less weight) That's why the ""sportier"" cars had them .",468,ask
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| What gets you out of bed every day?,"What are your life goals? Why do you get up every day? What drives you and why? |
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| Thank you for any and all responses to this personal question.",513,"Usually, the urge to piss.",682,ask
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| What is the worst case of mass brainwashing in human history?,What is the worst case of mass brainwashing in human history?,2269,"Jim Jones. |
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| There's the fucking tape of him convincing his cult to sacrifice themselves all together. |
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| But listen to me, they told to sacrifice the children first, and you can listen in the tape all of them. |
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| Did he drink the poison too? Nop |
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| He shot himself in head. |
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| More than 900 people **dead** in the town that he ""created"".",875,ask
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| What’s something that’s hurting you right now but won’t share with anyone you know irl?,What’s something that’s hurting you right now but won’t share with anyone you know irl?,1826,Loneliness/not being able to connect with other people,1391,ask
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| Why do serial killers turn into serial killers?,"I mean, why kill a bunch of people you don't know?",578,"Many different reasons, pretty much all involving unchecked mental illness. Dahmer was pervasively lonely and believed wholly that the only way someone would stay with him was if they were a lobotomized zombie. Bundy was spurned by a woman in a harsh way and he felt powerful killing and raping women who looked like her. Ed Gein just liked how people's bones and skin looked draped over his lamp. |
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| This is a question that has haunted psychologists for years and the only real answer is that there isn't much of an answer.",291,ask
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| Who in the entertainment world do you believe is a genuinely good person?,People are people and everyone has good and bad in them. I think there are some good celebrities out there.,1290,Dolly Parton,1205,ask
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| "If the USA added a 51st state, what would it be?","If the USA added a 51st state, what would it be?",859,"Puerto Rico most likely. It's been put to a vote a few times, but didn't get far.",1203,ask
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| What should a homeless person in the US do with $500?,.,675,Buy season ticket to a gym where he can take a shower - it allows him to stay clean and comfortable to communicate with which makes it easier to find a job,850,ask
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| Would it be wrong to talk to someone in a language I don’t speak?,"I’m asking this because I'm in high school and we got a new student today and she mainly speaks Spanish, she also knows very basic English. I (since I'm currently in Spanish 1) know very basic Spanish. I at some point greeted her in Spanish and we started a very brief conversation. She then sat with |
| me so I pulled out my Spanish notes to try and have a better conversation with her. She's very nice and I think she had a nice time. But I don't know if that was weird. For the things I couldn't remember how to ask or just didn't know I used google translate.",2138,UPDATE: She asked if I could help teacher her English and if she could help me with Spanish!! GUYS WE’RE BECOMING FRIENDS <333,1596,ask
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| What is something other ppl believe that you find utter bullshit? and why?,That
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| What the fuck does it take to get Pete Davidson out of my face every time I open Reddit?,"Seriously, this has made me think twice about opening Reddit knowing Pete Davidsons face is awaiting me in extreme closeup violently chewing.",9613,Disastrous ad campaign results in thousands of people blocking the u/realtacobell,639,ask
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| I just wanted to say thanks for the awards and upvotes. I don
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| What are your thoughts on a 25F dating a 44M coworker?,They are both smitten with each other.,949,Besides the age difference I don’t think dating a coworker is smart but it’s their business not mine. They’re both adults.,1348,ask
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| What phrases/lingo words do we as a society need to get rid of and never bring back?,Lay it on me!,549,"Can we start saying ""hella"" again because I missed out on that the first time around.",355,ask
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| how do you get karma?,"so i have a problem, i am trying to post on certain subreddits of interest but apparently everyone requires at least 20 karma and 3 days of account. i have had my account for years so that is not a problem but if i can't post anything where i am interested how does one get karma?",766,Thanks everyone for upvotes! Thank you for your support in the battle with nonsense!,233,ask
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| What do you think about the Alex Jones situation?," |
| I just saw an article saying he has to pay the family members 965 million dollars |
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| "found out the dude I'm seeing is married, what do?","Met a dude on tinder and had sex last night, mentioned we had a mutual friend. This morning I go on fb and look at the mutual friends friend list, find him, lo and behold he is married with 2 or 3 kids, can't really tell. I feel shitty. He lied about not having kids and being sterile to justify not using a condom so now I feel really uncomfortable about that too. I'm not sure where to go from here. Do I confront him about it or just ghost him? Do I let her know what happened and apologize? Help! |
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| Update: he said he was in an open marriage and let me talk to his wife about it, she knew what he was doing and is fine with it. He also sent me his most recent std test from a month and a half ago, clean. Claims he hasn't slept with anyone but his wife and me since. Also got a vasectomy after his kid was born. A lot of lying, not sure if I'm gonna see him again or not but not nearly as bad as I thought. |
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| Update #2 I still insisted on condoms being used despite him being sterile, he agreed begrudgingly, then showed up and said he didn't have any but we ""couldn't stop now"". Then after we finished he opened his wallet and showed the condoms that he very much did bring and I was stunned mostly, he said something about it taking too long to put on and ruin the mood. I know. I should have been more insistent. |
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| Edit #3: I'm starting to feel burning when I pee, he def gave me something. I have a gyno appointment Monday. I'm the biggest dumbass on this fucking planet. Also slept with someone else last night, used a condom, but hopefully I didn't give him something. Ugh",756,"WHOA HOLD UP!!! |
| HE TOLD YOU HE'S STERILE so he didn't have to use a condom?!? |
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| And what if he isn't sterile?!? He's lied about everything else! |
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| Right now, go make an appointment with your gyno. You gotta get proactive VERY fast about this. Don't trust a DAMN word out of that man's mouth. |
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| Also, I'd tell his wife bc he's a POS! Something about that asshole is setting off my dad alarm. |
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| Look, I know other commenters are lambasting you, but you gotta do what is right for yourself and right by that man's wife. Tell her, then take care of your body, then learn from all this. Never. Ever. Let a man convince you to sleep w/ him w/o a condom... especially if you barely know each other. |
| If a man pressures you in the future, kick him out. A good man doesn't do that to women. |
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| Hugs to you. Do what is right, even if it is hard.",1054,ask
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| Which is a reddit community you actively avoid?,Is there a subreddit you promise never to visit again?,1356,*me prepping to fuck my brain up and visit all the subs in the comment*,988,ask
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| What is legal that should be illegal?,What
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| Should I quit a job I don
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| What is Albuquerque known for?,"The city known for in general, bad or good?",671,Messing up Bugs Bunny
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| "How come when someone catches their spouse cheating, they want to fight the person that they’re being cheated with?","makes 0 sense to me, especially if they didn’t know and are just an innocent person",549,"Because if they put the blame where it belongs, on their spouse, their life falls apart. |
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| Its hard to accept that what you've built your life around is a lie and a joke, and much easier and more convenient to hate the ""external threat""",377,ask
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| Should women go to prison for false rape accusations?,I have heard too many stories of men getting locked up for false rape accusations and the women later confessing it to be false but getting off scot-free. Should they be arrested for false accusations?,1596,Yes. It’s perjury.,1139,ask
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| Is it racist to say a race is attractive?,"Me and my friend had a weird discussion about attraction and I said “I don’t know man, Black women have to be the most gorgeous people put on this earth.” My friend told me I can’t say that cause it’s racist, but I thought it wasn’t. I get how that can sound weird I guess but I’m not saying being black is what I’m attracted to, but black women are just gorgeous. Look at Viola Davis or Rihanna. I was a sheltered kid for a while so speaking with politeness and social correctness. Is it racist?",611,I don
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| Who was the best President of the USA?,Who was historically the best President of the USA?,865,"I would say George Washington because he had to invent what being president was. And him peacefully handing over power after two terms was a remarkable action, especially for a former military leader.",770,ask
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| "My girlfriend wants me to change my underwear style, should I?","I normally wear traditional briefs, not really tighty whities but solid color good quality briefs. I had to wear them when I wrestled and I never really changed it up. She wants me to change out my entire underwear drawer with boxer briefs.",1821,Boxer briefs are where it
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| Should I give my male friends more compliments?,"I (17F) would like to give compliments to my male friends but I don't know how would they react, or even if they would like it. I think they would consider it weird or even creepy but I'm not sure. I'm talking about compliments like nice clothes/hair/cologne and things like this. Should I try it? |
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| Edit: HOLY SHIT I wasn't expecting such a feedback, thank you all for your responses <3, I appreciate all your opinions and advices.",561,"Beyond the replies of ""They will think you are flirting with them"", one one other reaction to consider. Expect them to be awkward and disbelieving in general. They will wonder if you are being sarcastic. They will, likely, not know how to react to a genuine, platonic, compliment. Just expect some confusion.",437,ask
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| "If you have a ton of Karma, how did you get it?","I see some users with 10,000 and 30,0000. Are they just posting and commenting all day everyday, or did they just have a post go viral? Are they funnier than me? I need answers",1314,"I've got 60k, half or more is from like 2 or 3 jokes, the rest is from endless comments with mostly just a couple of karma each",655,ask
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| "do you ever just read an entire page of something while zoned out thinking about something else, and then realize you didn't comprehend any of it and have to read it all over again?",i feel like this is a constant,1625,All the fucking time,93,ask
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| Would you ever disown your child?,Why or why not,520,"Hypothetically, yes. But it would have to be something severe. Rape/ murder/ abuse etc. My mother disowned my sibling. He's a convicted paedophile. I think it's perfectly fair that she cut him off.",845,ask
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| This one is dumb but what does OP stand for?,I always wonder what it means,541,"Original Poster, so here you're OP",610,ask
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| Do people have an innate desire to have kids?,I have never had the desire to ever wants kids and it makes me feel broken. But I have always questioned people who say they want kids because it feels like they are having kids and showing them off to people as if they accomplished something monumental.,732,"Most people do, some people don't. There's certainly a strong biological urge to reproduce, but there's also a lot of research suggesting that economic, social and personal experiences also have a big influence on whether people want to reproduce. |
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| Am I screwed? I got drug tested.,I smoked weed on Tuesday after smoking consistently for pretty much a week and had to take a urine test on Thursday. I didn’t smoke at all on Wednesday and before the test I chugged alot of water and tea and pissed before the test. There was very little urine in the cup and it was pale yellow. Is there any chance I survive?,616,"*""I smoked weed on Tuesday. I mean I smoke weed every day, but I also smoked on Tuesday.""* |
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| Who’s a celebrity that passed away and it felt like losing a member of your family?,"For me it was Robin Williams. I remember the exact place I was. Boarding a plane, hearing people begin to chatter and then feeling a gut punch as someone who was so entrenched in the media of my youth was suddenly gone.",613,"Alex Trebek. I used to watch Jeopardy every night, and now I’m just… not so interested.",146,ask
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| Can I as a father live in a 1 bedroom apartment with my daughter?,Really just trying to get some perspective and opinions on what people think. It’s really all I can afford. I’m 26 she’s 7. My plan would be she gets the bdrm and I use the rest of the space as a studio apartment for me.,644,My biggest concern is CPS and family court. I have primary custody and the last thing I would want is for her to get taken from me. I’m just not sure if that’s okay in the courts’ eyes. I live in a mother state so me having custody is usually really surprising to most people.,333,ask
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| What flight etiquette should everyone follow?,?,1298,If I have my headphones on don’t talk to me.,742,ask
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| What in society is “outdated”?, What in society is considered “outdated”?,1226,85% of our politicians...,1135,ask
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| What is something really popular in your country that you have no interest in/don’t care for ?,.,650,Celebrity worship. So dumb and boring.,806,ask
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| I don’t act white. What does that mean?,"I work with a very diverse group of people and like laughing and having fun with them all (well most). A friend told another coworker that I’m white but I’m good. I was then told that I don’t act white. |
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| What is considered socially acceptable when your rich but unacceptable when your poor?,Very curious on this one,567,Cocaine addiction,633,ask
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| Do you still take a face mask with you when going out these days even though there are no more restrictions in your country?,"(I don’t necessarily mean the mask on the face, but keeping it in the bag or pocket)",3839,Only when I rob banks.,416,ask
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| How old is too old to go trick or treating?,"Hey reddit, M16. Halloween is coming up and my gf F15 wants to go trick or treating this year. So I said sure. My older brother looked down on me for it though and thinks I'm too old for it.",1661,I give to the high school kids trick or treating. There are so many worse things you could be doing tomorrow night. Giving a candy bar to the high school kids in my neighborhood is the least of my problems. 😀,1191,ask
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| why did this police officer ask me this?,"yesterday, cop car pulled into the parking lot my bf & i were sitting at, backed into a spot to my right & rolled down his window. he asked me, “where do you live?” i gave the general area i live in. he asked “where?” gave my street address. then he asked, “what are the cross streets?” which i told him. he said “oh okay”. then he & his partner drove off. |
| the whole time he seemed lighthearted & was even smiling at some points. i have no idea why a random cop would ask me this. anyone have some possible insight? he didn’t ask my boyfriend or anyone else in the lot the questions. i’m so confused",2438,Probably thought you might be a sex worker?,948,ask
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| do you think places of worships should pay taxes? why or why not?,do you think places of worships should pay taxes? why or why not?,922,"Any money used for charity, no taxes, everything else taxes. So if you run a mega church and pay yourself millions, tax it. You use it to feed or house people, no taxes.",357,ask
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| Are women attracted to muscles?,"Saw another similar post abt why men were so attracted to boobs, and that got me wondering, what are women attracted to the most? The facial features? Muscles? We men are kept in the dark about all this haha.",785,"I think it's about personal preference. Just like some men prefer ass to tits, some women like muscles while some don't. Personally, I don't like overly-muscled men but I do like a strong guy",541,ask
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| Is “oriental” offensive?,I’ve heard mixed answers but the general consensus is that it’s okay when not used in a negative context,688,"Oriental is like the phrase ""colored people"", it's an older term with lots of baggage. Society has moved past its accepted usage, probably better to use nationality or panethnic term.",585,ask
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| "Is saying ""black people"" bad/offensive?",Should I say African Americans or black?,1020,"""Black people"" is fine. ""The Blacks"" is not.",1589,ask
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| I hit a girl. am I wrong?,So we had a little accident at school one of my female friend and some girl had an argument and I try to stop them and that girl straight up hit me and call me p**sy etc. and i k ow that girl supports equal rights so i slap him not with a fist just open hand she fell on the ground im i wrong one?,1199,"Everyone should be allowed to defend themselves |
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| when did Elon Musk become so hated on reddit?,I remember a few years ago reddit seemed to love Elon. People seemed excited about the different things he was inventing and there were even pics of him with Justin Roiland who AFAIK is still very highly regarded on reddit. Now people talk about Elon as if he is the biggest piece of shit on the planet. Some of the things he |
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| Are you planning to vote in the midterm elections?,Why or why not?,893,"Already voted. My county makes early, in person voting very easy.",221,ask
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| Should a husband after taking a leak put the seat down for the wife? why or why not?,I asked some coworkers to see their opinion. Wanna hear yours.,1390,"put the whole lid down, everybody work for it",1626,ask
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| Are people who are poor or in poverty status being more blatantly punished for their economic status?,"For example, I see a lot of just get another job. Or, if you are poor, you cannot have children or more recently pets. Well, you should get rid of extras, including internet, to save money, and not ask for assistance. Is this really happening on a more visible basis?",529,"A lot of people think problems have easy solutions. I was a high school teacher for a while and in discussions with seniors regarding things like homelessness they'd say things like ""why don't they just get a job"". As though without clean clothes, reliable transportation and a verifiable home address it's easy to get employed.",202,ask
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| You have 100 dollars to spend before fighting a black bear what are you spending it on?,You can go under budget but not over obviously,583,"Makeup, I shall seduce the bear.",473,ask
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| Why does America get so much hate by fellow Americans?,We’re the most diverse country in the world. I may be wrong—I’ll say we have it pretty easy as opposed to 50 years ago.,871,"Specifically because we've been raised our entire lives to love this country with all our hearts, that it's the best country out there, that we have it better than everyone else. Then we grow up, learn about other cultures, learn exactly how our government REALLY works, and feel betrayed. I don't hate America, I hate my government. America is a place filled with Americans, and 99% of them have no power to affect the lives of the rest. Why would I hate my fellow citizens who just want to live the American dream? I hate the bullshit government officials who suck the teats of BigWar/BigPharma/BigInsurance/BigAg etc. instead of doing what they're elected to do. I think so little of how are country operates because I can see the downfalls, not just the upsides. Richest country on earth, millions in poverty, homeless, systemically oppressed. ""But it's worse elsewhere"" congratulations you beat your wife the least often and don't use a closed fist, that doesn't make you a saint. A free and open democracy where two parties steer the politics, pick the candidates, and lock out any potential third party entering the race. A free market system where consumers get to choose which of 3 shell companies' products they'll use to fund the single mother company of all of them. |
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| Ohhhhh but the upsides! Our freedom! Our speech! The possibilities! All leftover benefits from our founding ideas, protected by our constitution and that's it. Notice how none of those things are new, they're just the only things we've managed to hold onto as the elite class sucks the electorate dry. |
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| Sure, America(the idea, the people, the location) is great. But America(90% of the govt and corporations) is a fucking shitstorm. Fuck them.",1471,ask
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| Do you put your PJ’s under your pillow?,"My boyfriend an I have differing opinions, wanting to know what everyone thinks and does! |
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| Why do non-Californians hate California so much?,"I never realized how many people hated my home state until I started using this site. |
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| Whenever California gets brought up in a thread there’s always boatloads of people saying horrible things about the state and the people who live there. Where does this burning resentment of California stem from?",8037,"As a native and current resident of California, I understand why people talk smack about the state. It’s so outrageously expensive to live here. The cost of living is untenable. Outside of the big cities, California is actually pretty conservative and redneck, so many people within the state already oppose the current government. |
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| But personally, I live in paradise. I’ve fallen in love with where I live because this area is so beautiful. I could explore the alpine hiking trails just a few minutes from my front door for years and still not see everything. I’ve never felt better about myself before living here. My personal living expenses are much lower compared to a lot of people, so I don’t feel as much stress. California, the state as a whole, offers something for absolutely anyone: mountains, desert, ocean, forest, volcanoes, etc. |
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| i just found out crossing legs for guys is painful? HOW is that true???,edit: yes but no,886,"Its not true all the time. |
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| "How Did the Term, ""Latinx."" Become so Popular if most Latinos themselves Hate it?","Whenever I hear someone use, ""Latinx,"" on a video somewhere on the internet, the majority of Latinos in the comments are always refuting it and calling the term stupid. If the majority of the race it's referring to dislikes it so much, why is it still used?",1644,"White liberals who were offended on behalf of the latinos. |
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| What is your most controversial opinion?,"I’ll rate it from 1-10 politics are allowed but not fighting in the comments I am going to bed bow so the comments are closed! Please stop commenting, I’m getting way too many notifications at the moment and it’s causing issues! Thank you!",1018,"Drivers tests should be retaken now and then, especially old people. You hear about old people being dumb in cars a lot and this might help. Probably gonna get downovoted. |
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| "What old and ""outdated"" peice of technology do you still use and enjoy using?",I will start first down in the comments.,743,"Wired headphones, gotta keep the earbuds on a leash feel me?",446,ask
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| What is the best state to live in USA?,"Describe in a few words why |
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| Why are unions viewed as such a negative thing in the USA?,"When I read several post on Reddit and other social media, I always see such negativity about unions concerning jobs in the USA. Why are they viewed in such a negative light? Aren't they there to help employees and employers to improve working conditions and eventually that benefiting the output of the business?",584,"I loved my unions. In one, I got pay raises yearly while non-union positions went three years without a raise. I had issues with a coworker not taking my severe food allergy seriously so I was able to get my union rep to nip it in the bud vs HR just asking nicely previously and not taking it seriously. My union dues were well worth all the additional benefits I received. |
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| Unions are thought of as favorable for around 70% of Americans… although it’s likely that the SCOTUS is about to decimate Union power.",255,ask
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| "People who are against the student loan forgiveness program, why?","I get that some people see it as a niche handout and they’re funding it with their taxes but nobody had a problem with PUA or PPP. Also they don’t seem to realize that people getting loans forgiven are paying into it also. Just curious what peoples thoughts are. |
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| "If you met your partner as a stranger now, would you date them?","Curious about those who have been in a long term relationship, if you met your partner now do you think you would be interested in them/pursue them?",1040,I would def hit that immediately. Together 20 years,468,ask
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| "If I ordered 2 iPads from Walmart and they sent me 3 extras but only charged for 2, is it pretty likely they go back and charge my card for the extras or did I just get a major blessing?","And if there’s a better place to ask this question link it and I’ll delete this post, wasn’t sure where to ask",1728,"You mean you received two iPads and not a single item more, and this post doesn’t exist.",2299,ask
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| Why in America can we not see past the 2 party system?? Republican/democrats please answer!!,Pls I just want opinions. I’m a stressed out American.,647,"it is not that we cannot see past, but our electoral system of winner take all works to reinforce a two party system. if you want multi parties, gotta change the system.",359,ask
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| About to be homeless in an sedan with a cat during winter. What do I do?,"Hi everyone. I’m currently in a situation where losing my lease is inevitable. The only place I have is my sedan. But I also have my cat. I have never been homeless and don’t even know how to start preparing, I have until Sunday. I don’t know how to go about keeping his litter box, or how to keep him warm as it’s going to start snowing this week. Not only that but I don’t even know how to maintain myself. What kind and how to keep food, how to pack my car etc, how to keep myself warm etc. any and all advice is deeply appreciated. |
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| Very long awaited but I want to start this by saying THANK YOU. With all of the people that reached out and made donations not only was I able to pay my rent (after some ugly sobbing begging to the girl who communicates with my landlord) AND my rent for the month of December which has put me in a position to be able to pay Januarys rent. I want to let all of you know you may have just saved not only my life but my cat Lemongrabs life too. It started to snow heavily as Sunday came and went. I have been taking the time to enjoy having my bed, a hot shower and food in my stomach. I hope that the universe serves you all well and treats you with as much compassion and sympathy as you have shown me. To the people who messages me personally I either don’t know how to use Reddit or I need to update my version because it only allows me to see the most recent people who have messaged me and glitches when I try to scroll. Again, you all saved my life. Considering today is thanksgiving I spent the mourning wrapped in my own self loathing that I’d be spending it alone and then I realized how much worse it could be. I could be freezing my ass off in my car in a Walmart parking lot eating cans of tuna. You all mean the world to me and just know you all have someone to go to if you ever need a friend. I love all of you to the sun and back.",1259,"First, do you have any money? Even a few hundred to buy some things that will make car living easier? I’ve known people who have lived in their cars with pets for a year or more and they made it work long enough to save up enough money to get a new place. Staying organized is key for living in a small space. I encourage you to watch some of the YouTube videos of people who live in their cars. Especially those with pets. |
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| There are ways to weatherize your car. Look those up. Also make a list of places you can park overnight. Most Walmarts allow overnight parking. You can also get away with it in the parking lots of a lot of big hotels.",856,ask
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| How many of you are old enough to remember a time before the internet?,How many of you are old enough to remember a time before the internet? How was it? How old are you?,982,"Hell, I remember when the TV stations went off the air at midnight.",238,ask
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| Why do people say they hate the US/Americans but continue to consume US media?,"I see a ton of hate for the US/Americans online, but then when you check their comment/post history, whaddya know, they watch American TV shows, listen to American artists, and keep up with American trends. I think it is hypocrisy, I wish someone would make it make sense",909,A lot of the same reason a lot of Americans say we hate China but 99% of our stuff was made there.,457,ask
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| What breed of dog would you never own and why?,Wether it’s health or behavior.,750,"Any brachycephalic breed. Pugs, bulldogs, frenchies, etc.",705,ask
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| What are some man skills every guy should learn ?,For guys in their 30’s,756,Fight de-escalation,950,ask
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| Do you believe that the world was better pre-social media?,?,3940,"Pre-smart phone yes. Social media has less to do with it. We had AIM and small social media sites before smart phones. If you think about it differently it’s like if you could only smoke cigarettes at one table in your own house. It would be a lot harder to get addicted to them. Before smart phones you didn’t take social media with you everywhere. It’s mainly smart phones, iPhone in particular.",545,ask
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| What meal traumatized you as a kid?,Liver and chitterlings,2083,Salmon casserole made from canned salmon. My mom left the bones in it frequently and I dislike fish anyway.,546,ask
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| "my family chose the person who sexually assulted me over me for Thanksgiving, what should I do?","I F15 was sexually assulted my my cousin M(14 or 15) not long ago. I had filed a report and everything against him and he's being investigated as far as I know. So onto today, I had asked my grandma what time Thanksgiving was and she had told me she doesn't want me there till later due to drama and stuff. And the reason being is because M was going to be there... I'm very hurt I wanted to spend Thanksgiving with my family and not without them. I need advice on what to do |
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| Why do some people have their car stereos so loud it vibrates the windows of my house when they drive by?,"I get it, some songs are great, but some people have their radios so loud it actually shakes windows in houses when they drive by. These people look like tool bags when they drive by doing this.",579,They hate having 5 senses. Trying to opt out of one of them.,205,ask
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| What is a popular thanksgiving dish that you hate?,"I personally don’t like sweet potatoes or the collard greens. I used to like them, i have no idea what happened.",675,"Dry-ass, under-seasoned turkey.",385,ask
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| Do Americans still like America?,"Just curious. Do you feel proud anymore? I am considering other options and wish I felt the ""pride of county"". What do you feel?",1599,I am an immigrant to this country and I feel very fortunate to live here. I love this country very much.,1523,ask
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| Why is barely anybody talking and being against the Uyghur Muslim Genocide in China?,"There is proof of the camps existence and its inhabitants terrible conditions. It is like a Muslim Holocaust, and you think the whole world wozld be talking about it, but I see a lack of posts about it, especially here on Reddit.",1349,"A) China is too important to the global economy to piss off too much |
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| what should a husband do during periods?,PLSS HELP ME,1198,"Be a caring and supportive partner? Same as you hopefully always are? |
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| Do yall think the alcohol is a drug??,?,689,"It is, regardless of opinion",960,ask
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| Which Reddit subs are the biggest echo chambers?,Lots of subs have open debate but some are so one sided that the commentary is at best laughable and at worst deranged. Which subs have you ventured into by mistake and would recommend fellow Redditors avoid at all cost?,1056,Any subreddit that bans people with opposing views,637,ask
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| Why do I dislike kids so much?,"Not to sounds like a dick but I’m genuinely curious, the thought of birthing a child and caring for it makes me sick and upset should I seek mental help?",576,"No, you do not need mental help you just need to listen to yourself and do not have kids. I am 52, never wanted kids, and did not have any and I do not regret it. My husband and I are super happy everyday we did not have kids. People told us we would regret not having them but that day has never come. Just live your life kid free and enjoy it.",475,ask
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| When did child-free weddings become a thing?,"I only noticed this lately so I wonder if it's been around longer and I had just been unaware or if it is in fact a recent development. |
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| Update: Thank you all for your input. I haven't been able to keep up with all but did notice some trends, some of which I was also unaware of: |
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| \- lots of people have an aversion to kids in general, not just at events; |
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| \- cultural differences seem to be a determinant factor between which side of this people have had contact with or pick; |
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| \- many cite misbehaving kids as a reason to exclude them; |
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| \- many cite bad parenting; |
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| \- many seem to believe that kids can't or shouldn't be present when alcohol is being consumed; |
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| \- several mentioned liability issues; |
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| \- cost is another consideration and head count is another side of that ""coin""; |
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| Overall, I think we gathered some interesting and useful information on the subject. Tag me to let me know if there are other patterns you noticed that you'd like to see added to this list to make it more informative for latecomers and fans of TLDR. :D |
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| Thank you all. Cheers.",3502,"I'm over 30 years old and my parents went without me to a few because they were child free (the weddings, my bad English is not my first language) So my guess is that this is not new",930,ask
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| What can a woman do to make herself automatically more attractive to you?,What are those little things that women do that make her more attractive to you?,1283,Nothing attracts a man
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| what a celebrity no one expected to be a total asshole?,Think of a celebrity that you thought was the kindest person on the planet and then found out he was kind of a piece of shit...,990,Bill Cosby. I grew up with him,850,ask
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| Parents why does this bother you so much?,"Why do parents seem so upset or baffled when they hear someone has no intention of ever having children? |
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| Genuinely curious 🤔",1813,"My dad says it's good to know whether you want kids or not, because he dislikes people who have them without actually wanting them. I agree with his logic.",785,ask
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| I was like, WTF! I am normally a great tipper, but I am absolutely not tipping an online shop when ordering clothing!",424,ask
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| "Men of reddit, What |
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| Please no misogynistic or misandristic comments. |
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| Edit: The concern for the drink thing is appreciated 🙏 and will be working on it.",2063,My wife’s 5’3”. I OWN every top shelve in this place!,1098,ask
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| What's legal but shouldn't be?,Tell me,1199,Inflating the price of life-saving medication,1842,ask
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| "ruin my weekend pls — what’s a fact i probably didn’t know, and probably didn’t want to know??",sources if you got em!,1470,that sometimes women fart in a way that it accidentally escapes the ass in such a way that it travels up through the pussy lips and flaps them a little bit.,649,ask
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| Why do we vilify tobacco use in the US but cannabis use is almost celebrated?,You are still putting chemicals into your lungs that are and will be detrimental.,1018,"There |
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| Once cannabis prohibition ends (at the federal level, especially) and we have years and years of recreational use, there will be more eyes on the negative aspects of use. When people feel like they
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| I am an over 40 male. Used to do weight training from 14-37. Now wife says I shouldn’t go to gym because I am trying to reclaim my youth. Is she correct in preventing me? Want to understand female perspective,I just want to get in shape and be healthier like I used to be.,791,That
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| What is the most absurd beauty standard in your culture?,"I’m curious about different cultures and enjoy learning about the differences and similarities between cultures. Recently, a few friends and I were talking about how strange some beauty standards are, and what beauty means (or what they meant) in the countries we’re from.",1306,Those stupid lip fillers and the new Ariana Grande stretched eyes…,1240,ask
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| "Dogs of Reddit, what are cats just not ready to hear?",Just asking,564,"Cover up your buttholes. You've got a tail for a reason, and it isn't to wave over your head while you walk around.",226,ask
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| What are uncomfortable truths you’ve come to terms with?,What are uncomfortable truths you’ve come to terms with?,1561,Some people just aren
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| "Reddit men, what is one thing you hate about other men?","in my case it's when they can't take ""no"" for an answer and keep insisting.",1497,One-upping.,1413,ask
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| What is a word that gets thrown around a lot and has lost all meaning?,Just curious about others responses,638,"Gaslighting |
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| Especially on reddit. Just because someone tells you you're wrong doesn't mean they are gaslighting you. People need to stop throwing the word around so much.",925,ask
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| "Why doesn't America call morbidly obese men ""beautiful"" and ""healthy"", and put them on magazine covers?",And why is it OK that young boys are hospitalized because of beauty standards? Are they less valuable than young girls?,2386,They
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| "What’s something that’s considered a “Conspiracy Theory” that you completely believe is true, and why?",Let’s hear them!,584,Epstein didn
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| What would you do about the homeless crisis in America?,"One of the larger issues capturing Americans, the homeless crisis. How would you work to prevent this? What would you do for the current homeless?",676,"homeless unemployed vet here, |
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| got out and none of my qualifications from the serves translate into the real world. ( yes i tried USA-MAPS and the ""C.O.O.L"" program) so it would be nice if certifications from armed serves were national recognized certifications. |
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| I enrolled into college to use POST-911 bill but landlords do not except the housing allowance as ""income"". would be nice if the VA had a voucher system like the section 8 system to combat this issue |
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| you need an address on job resumes to apply and you need a job to get a address. can we remove address requirements from job applications and while I'm at it lets removed ""what ethnicity are you"" as well. why is my race an important factor when the bottom of the listing says ""we are an equal oppurtunity employer"" |
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| landlords require 3x income of the rent. with rent averaging 1200$ i need at a minimum of $22/h ... know any entry level jobs that pay that? |
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| landlords also require rental history of the past 3 years. if you already been homeless for a while good luck finding a rental to take the chance on you with a bunch of gaps in address. |
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| section 8 waiting lists are up in the years. |
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| i do not qualify for ""food stamps"" or other government aids because i have more the maximum 2000$ in liquid assets that iv been saving for fist/last/and security when i hopefully find a place to rent. |
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| yes, iv called the VA in multiple states, one said frankly look man rent is in high demand we are struggling to house anyone. tried a different state and was giving 4 different non .gov websites and a bunch of numbers to call. very confusing, i think she was just sending me on a goose hunt |
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| iv often wished this was 300 years ago I could just go out west to unclaimed land. build a home and start a garden. |
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| i dont know how to fix the homless problem on a large scale, i cant even fix my own. but its defiantly harder to get out the longer your there",521,ask
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| Why did we trade a weapons arm dealer thats in jail for helping terrorists for a WNBA player???,Please let me know I am really curious,2604,Because our government went full potato,226,ask
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| What outdated social customs should we finally retire?,"I’ll go first asking a father for a hand in marriage |
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| Edit thank you for all your responses you make some really valid points I couldn’t reply to all they’re so many😪",6509,"Inviting everyone you and your parents know to your wedding. Makes it too big, and you don't always know everyone there.",1866,ask
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| What is something you tried once but will never do again?,For me it’s Pub Crawls,1841,Heroin,428,ask
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| Who do you think is the funniest person ever? Dead or Alive,"I just want to get others opinions, and I don't wanna say mine, as to not influence your responses.",744,George Carlin,397,ask
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| What’s something you 100% believed 5 years ago that you know to be completely false now?,…,1700,That I was my dad
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| How many days will you reuse a bath towel before it needs to be washed?,"My wife uses one or more clean towels for every shower she takes, which means we own a ridiculous amount of towels and do a ridiculous amount of laundry. Just curious if this is fairly common or if she’s got some kind of complex about her towels. I’ve personally only been aware of one other person who binned a towel after one use.",634,Until it becomes the sex towel. Its done after that.,909,ask
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| Do you think it’s ok for people to wear pajamas in public?,"Do you think it’s ok for people to wear their pajamas in public places? |
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| ETA: I have nothing against people who are wearing pajamas in public. I just want to know what the community thinks. |
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| I also saw in the comments that this was reposted and I apologize to those who are answering this similar question again. The original post got removed so I never saw it when searching up the question.",789,It’s none of my business what other people do. Plain and simple.,889,ask
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| What’s a reality check the public needs to hear?,…,2138,Sometimes it’s nobody’s fault that a bad thing happened.,2199,ask
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| What’s your “I put that shit on everything” ingredient?,"As I was shamelessly piling za’atar on top of my lunch today, I started to wonder what you guys add to most of your meals?",5714,"Garlic, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS TOO MUCH GARLIC.",1397,ask
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| Can you name a food cheese doesn
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| "What are some ""cheat codes"" for cooking?",Learning to cook is hard ok I need some help lol,3065,Clean as you go,1527,ask
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| What is one modern-day custom/practice that you think will be completely inappropriate in 30 years?,I
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| What are the best bands who have a completely unique sound?,"The more obscure, the better.",864,I
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| "My best friend F21 let me M20 touch her boobs on my 18th birthday, it’s been 2 years and i can’t stop thinking about her, what do i do?",?,520,Jerk off before you make any decision/take any action,1065,ask
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| Why don’t guys wipe after they pee?,"I argue with my bf about this all the time, and he states that guys don’t wipe and he just “shakes and go” it would literally take a second to wipe it, I don’t think it’s that hard.",2821,How does one wipe at a urinal,2575,ask
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| What is the least attractive spoken accent?,Not a huge fan of the Wisconsin-esque accent,540,Don
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| Edit: Most people will say thats very noble of him and will applaud him for it. My fellow veterans and service members will probably agree that he
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| What is some young people slang I can intentionally use incorrectly to annoy my 11 year old nephew with this Christmas?,"Specifically gamer-related slang. |
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| Actual usage and suggestions for how to misuse are very welcome as well.",3065,"These replies are great, but also throw in out of date stuff like YOLO or swag for maximum cringe",850,ask
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| What are some weird things people do in the south?,I live in the south myself and have seen people eat banana and mayo sandwiches and do fireworks - every holiday.,805,Eat fried chicken and gizzards outta sketchy gas stations,534,ask
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| Most overused word of 2022?,What’s the most overused word of 2022? Personally for me the most overused word of 2022 is: serotonin,828,Gaslight,886,ask
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| "Have you ever met a celebrity? If you have, who did you met and how nice were they?",?,1274,"As part of an internship I met Gabriel Iglesias. I actually had never heard of him but I knew my girlfriend at the time had so I took her backstage. |
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| He was the nicest man. It was an unpaid internship (which was okay with me my boss was amazing and made it worth it). |
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| When he found out he went ""Oh hell no chico that's not how Fluffy do. Hang on we gonna fix this"". Proceeded to pull out a straight $1,000 and put it into my hand. My boss was walking up and he goes (like a drug dealer) ""SHHHHH be cool man be cool"" and playfully shooed me away with a wink. |
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| What is the worst word in the English language?,I personally hate the word ‘rural’,536,"Colonel, where's the ""R""? |
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| Palindrome, should be a palindrome.",356,ask
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| "I (15f) am getting taught survival skills, Russian, Morse code etc by my mother, but she won’t tell me why I’m learning this. What has she done that she needs to teach me this, to prepare for something?","I have been taught how to survive almost every natural disaster, I have been taught how to build a bunker, a lot of survival skills, I’ve learnt morse code, sign language, and now im learning russian and soon to be learning how to use different weapons such as an axe, bow&arrow, knives, etc. |
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| She is a normal person, she has worked in security, then spent some years working with people who have disabilities. |
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| I’ve asked her why I’m learning this and she responded, “I’ll tell you another day”. |
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| If anyone can provide with an answer to why I’m learning this please help me.",1548,She is a doomsday prepper. She is preparing you a major disaster either natural or man made so that you will be able to survive.,875,ask
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| Do you wash your feet when you shower?,Asking for a friend,572,"No, i keep my socks on to preserve the stench",298,ask
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| What’s the best alternative to the phrase “I told you so?”,Is there a nicer way of going about it rather than being mean?,685,I’m sorry. I was worried that that might happen.,710,ask
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| What is unnecessarily harder than it should be?,Title,1054,Finding motivation to do a hobby while working a 9-5 job. Exercise also applicable >.<,661,ask
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| Is she flirty or friendly?,"Yesterday I met a female friend I haven’t seen in a couple months and she was kind of touchy feely. When we sat at a table she rested her legs against my legs under the table. She touched my face a couple of times, she also touched my legs with her hands later when lying on the sofa and when it was time to say goodbye she kissed me first on the cheek and then on the jaw. |
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| Just wondering if that might mean something or if it’s just normal friendly behavior? We are both 26 y/o",584,Sounds to me like she
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| When you hear “North Carolina” what do you think of?,Title,1247,"Come on, and raise up. Take your shirt off, twist it round yo head, spin it like a helicopter.",965,ask
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| Should prisoners be allowed to vote?,body text,663,"If you have to pay taxes, you should be able to vote.",277,ask
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| What makes it obvious that someone is from Europe?,Mine that stands out is they always wear banana hammocks (speedos) at the beach!,1581,"It seems to me that many Europeans are polite, but not friendly. They don’t want to talk to strangers like Americans, Australians, and many Africans do.",994,ask
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| What’s a show you could never get in to and couldn’t understand the hype of?,For me it would be game of thrones,834,Never liked the News.,556,ask
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| Why won’t minimum wage match living expenses?,"I’m get paid minimum wage and I’m living paycheck to paycheck. I have to budget like crazy or I’ll starve and be homeless and have to share a room with someone I heavily hate. Because there is no where else financially to go. Why does minimum wage never match up with rent cost, grocery cost ect……. |
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| GODDAMN THATS A LOTTA UPVOTES! I didn’t expect that especially since I post disgusting content but thank you.",10195,Companies will pay as little as they can get away with. They’d charge YOU to work if they could. And also because workers haven’t organized and demanded higher wages.,738,ask
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